I expect my husband to say yes to sex. Not every time, but most of the time.
But for some reason because I'm a woman..that expectation is reasonable.
But reverse it... if a man has an expectation that his wife says yes, most of the time that is seen as coercion and pressure.
EXPECTING your spouse to do their best to be sexually available, regardless if it's the woman or the man shouldn't be seen as anything but NORMAL.
you agreed to be your husband’s exclusive source of sex. that means yes, you OWE him sex.
if you refuse to sleep with your husband for months on end, don’t be shocked when he cheats.
you can’t demand monogamy while refusing to fulfill your end of the deal.