Here’s a piece of unsolicited advice for Men with money entering relationships:
A lot of your relationships fail because you started with an unsustainable version of you. Sometimes when we love someone, we try to secure that love through too much effort, attention, gifts, or availability too early.
“You can kill a new plant by watering it too much.”
The problem with doing too much too early is that your initial effort becomes the standard. A relationship that starts at 100 has nowhere natural to grow.
When you give too much too early, the relationship skips the stage where you 2 gradually learn to love each other in a realistic way. Your effort becomes your identity in the relationship.
So when you reduce that effort later, it feels like less love to the other person whereas you’re just dealing with life.
When you have money, it’s tempting to do too much too early. But it’s usually a bad idea even if you can afford it.
Invested N105M at the starting of the year which is now N121M but I still feel like I’m poor after seeing this.
Any help on how to know how much I generate daily on an average?
@michael_rukevwe@Starboy_lekside@BestofDem_szn wtf! this a big cap.
Your collateral need to be around 2x and 2.5x at best of the money you are looking to borrow. No such thing as 10x, Una go just dey make up numbers at all time 🤦♂️
Chelsea Football Club is delighted to announce the appointment of Xabi Alonso as Manager of the Men’s Team.
The Spaniard will begin his role on July 1, 2026, having agreed a four-year contract at Stamford Bridge.
Welcome to Chelsea, Xabi!
It’s because of narratives like this that statements such as “men cheat more” and “men are scum” have survived for so long, because men were conditioned to stay silent or hide their side of the story when they discover their wives cheating, due to people like you shaming them for speaking up.
Men are not only shamed by women for this, but also by fellow men.
Meanwhile, women are often quick to run to the internet whenever infidelity happens or any issue comes up in a relationship, which is part of why they hold so much influence over these narratives while men don’t.
Let me tell you something: you are no better than the men you criticize for speaking up.
In fact, I encourage more men to start speaking up to create awareness. The moment men begin openly sharing their experiences, narratives like “men cheat more” or “men are cheaters” will start dying down, because the truth is that both genders are capable of the same things.
More men also need to stop seeing women as innocent creatures painted by society. Women can be just as brutal as men, if not more.
We will not inherit the silence of our fathers
It’s because of narratives like this that statements such as “men cheat more” and “men are scum” have survived for so long, because men were conditioned to stay silent or hide their side of the story when they discover their wives cheating, due to people like you shaming them for speaking up.
Men are not only shamed by women for this, but also by fellow men like you.
Meanwhile, women are often quick to run to the internet whenever infidelity happens or any issue comes up in a relationship, which is part of why they hold so much influence over these narratives while men don’t.
Let me tell you something: you are no better than the men you criticize for speaking up.
In fact, I encourage more men to start speaking up to create awareness. The moment men begin openly sharing their experiences, narratives like “men cheat more” or “men are cheaters” will start dying down, because the truth is that both genders are capable of the same things.
More men also need to stop seeing women as innocent creatures painted by society. Women can be just as brutal as men, if not more.
We will not inherit the silence of our fathers!!!
So, as a man, you came on Twitter to tell the whole world how your wife cheated on you or how you cheated on your wife. Please what exactly do you hope to achieve with that? What do you want a possible future wife to think of you, other than that you’re a weak and inferior man?🙄
This is cope. You can discourage people from yahoo without lying about reality. Yahoo is simply financial crime and the bulk of the world money is gotten from financial crime. London itself is the financial crime capital of Europe.
Many yahoo boys diversified their assets, cleansed their money and are living on investments. How you make money is irrelevant to the world system, it is what you do with the money you make that determines if you live in wealth or poverty. You can make money legally and still go broke.
When we say actions have consequences - even the right ones, it means that making good decisions and living your life right does not mean the universe will reward you with wealth. Most times, it means you won't make money, but you'll be able to sleep because your conscience is clear and you wake up holding the full measure of your integrity. To make money in this world, most times, you need to dead your conscience. It is a dog eat dog world.
The whole point of living right, is because it is right, not because it will fetch you money. Many times, it won't because you convince yourself that all money is not good money. That is the consequences of making the right action. The world system itself rewards ruthlessness. If you get caught and punished- that is consequences. If you never get caught, and you live large - that is consequences.
Actions have consequences- you just never know which one is yours.