But he also often talks about finance as he has an okay paying job, 101.099 eur per year, and has been saving a lot of money (he lives in a cheap 2 bedroom rental, I am an only child to him, he has no other family, he is single and doesn’t have a car or other exspenses).
I think i made a lot of mistakes and that destroyed our friendship (and relationship to the other one, i can understand that his anger issues were because of the borderline too, so i dont blame him for saying these things)