i am so grateful i was not born with a penis as much fun as pissing in a urinal sounds what if im having sex with someone and i suddenly imagine their head being blown off and go limp. how do you explain that like sorry babe put your clothes back on daddy's having an episode
Controversial opinion but "people are too accessible 24/7 and that has set unrealistic expectations socially" and "it's polite to keep friends informed, check in and ease their minds" can co-exist.
"I don't owe people anything" is a statement for strangers, not friendships.