The Asian women who were murdered in Atlanta had full, complex lives and it is so overwhelmingly clear that most newsrooms do not have the skills, expertise, or analysis to report on these women in a way that does not dehumanize them and empathize with the shooter.
I don’t know what 19-25 year old woman needs to hear this, but: You should not ever have to beg someone to love you. To do things for you. To do things with you. A person that loves you will hear you. They will listen. They will make an effort