Percaya atau engga, followers yang kalian dapetin dari hasil ngonten itu bakal lebih setia daripada hasil mutualan brutal, karena mereka follow kalian untuk baca postingan kalian.
Challenge:
Pitch people in one paragraph tentang diri kalian atau akun kalian supaya mereka tertarik follow kamu
Misal:
Hai, aku Jeya. Kalo kamu yang pengen jago bahasa Inggris tapi lebih suka belajar sambil rebahan, aku bahas English hacks yang simpel, nyambung sama kehidupan sehari-hari, dan ga bikin ngantuk. 1 konten aku setara dengan 1 bab buku sekolah kamu π
Your turn! ππ»ππ»ππ»
A surefire way to make a bad situation worse is to continue replaying it in your mind.
The damage is done. The only thing that matters now is making the best choice given your current position.
Next play mentality.
Wake Up Early - Tell No One.
Go to Run - Tell No One.
Work A Lot - Tell No One.
Eat Healthy - Tell No One.
Go to Gym - Tell No One.
Avoid fake dopamine by telling people & disrupt your success, Let your work speak.
Divorce rates are high in this generation for one simple reason. People don't understand what marriage actually is. Social media made everyone believe there's always someone better out there, a richer man, a prettier woman, a more exciting life, but comparison kills loyalty.
People want weddings, not marriages. They'll spend months planning a ceremony and zero time learning how to communicate when things get hard. Nobody knows how to argue anymore.
They yell, they shut down, they run instead of learning how to fight for each other. Money pressure exposes weak foundations. Instead of building together, couples turn on each other, men stop leading, women stop respecting their men, temptation is everywhere. Now everyone uses therapy words to escape accountability. Everything is toxic, everything is trauma. Nothing is ever their fault.
There's no community pressure to stay married anymore. No elders saying work it out. Just friends saying leave. You deserve better. Kids became optional, sacrifice became outdated and vows became suggestions.
Marriage used to mean I'll suffer with you. Now it means I'll stay as long as I'm happy. And that's why divorce is high. Because people don't know how to suffer together.
They only know how to quit when excitement is no longer there.
We are in the trenches!!
Kalo di realitanya si korban tidak sesalah atau seburuk persepsi di kepalanya, narsistik akan memaksa apapun caranya si korban harus jadi nyata sesalah atau seburuk itu.
Narsistik butuh tetap merasa benar, bahkan meski kenyataannya bertolak belakang dengan persepsinya.
No successful man who's chasing women.
Only a weak man is desperate for love and attention.
A strong man is focused on God, his purpose, and fixing himself.