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Notes to myself

[💀 @rayihatalmatar]

@jjktalv Iya betul

[💀 @rayihatalmatar]

@andihiyat Ngerapihin tumpukan file di folder download, finishing kerjaan minor, ngedit tulisan.

Sisanya sok fokus, sok sibuk aja. Biar kul, gawl & funky.

[💀 @rayihatalmatar]

Hi, gua Rayi (nama pena)

Btw rayihat-almatar (رائحة المطر), artinya petrichor. Seorang konsultan keuangan, project manager & penulis amatir. Cinta kedamaian, benci kekerasan. Hobi "uppercut" para pria lemah & inkompeten, biar becoming a gentleman sebagaimana fitrahnya.

[Jeya • English Hacks @sourvive]

Percaya atau engga, followers yang kalian dapetin dari hasil ngonten itu bakal lebih setia daripada hasil mutualan brutal, karena mereka follow kalian untuk baca postingan kalian.

Challenge:
Pitch people in one paragraph tentang diri kalian atau akun kalian supaya mereka tertarik follow kamu

Misal:
Hai, aku Jeya. Kalo kamu yang pengen jago bahasa Inggris tapi lebih suka belajar sambil rebahan, aku bahas English hacks yang simpel, nyambung sama kehidupan sehari-hari, dan ga bikin ngantuk. 1 konten aku setara dengan 1 bab buku sekolah kamu 😉

Your turn! 👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻

[💀 @rayihatalmatar]

Kuasai fokus & konsistensi, niscaya kemenangan cuma soal waktu.

[💀 @rayihatalmatar]

@tawakkaI No. 1 sambil lanjut apply2

[💀 @rayihatalmatar]

@rsngprad Active listening & komunikasi persuasif

[James Clear @JamesClear]

A surefire way to make a bad situation worse is to continue replaying it in your mind.

The damage is done. The only thing that matters now is making the best choice given your current position.

Next play mentality.

[Dear Self. @Dearme2_]

Wake Up Early - Tell No One.
Go to Run - Tell No One.
Work A Lot - Tell No One.
Eat Healthy - Tell No One.
Go to Gym - Tell No One.

Avoid fake dopamine by telling people & disrupt your success, Let your work speak.

[The married man @marriedmn]

Divorce rates are high in this generation for one simple reason. People don't understand what marriage actually is. Social media made everyone believe there's always someone better out there, a richer man, a prettier woman, a more exciting life, but comparison kills loyalty.

People want weddings, not marriages. They'll spend months planning a ceremony and zero time learning how to communicate when things get hard. Nobody knows how to argue anymore.
They yell, they shut down, they run instead of learning how to fight for each other. Money pressure exposes weak foundations. Instead of building together, couples turn on each other, men stop leading, women stop respecting their men, temptation is everywhere. Now everyone uses therapy words to escape accountability. Everything is toxic, everything is trauma. Nothing is ever their fault.

There's no community pressure to stay married anymore. No elders saying work it out. Just friends saying leave. You deserve better. Kids became optional, sacrifice became outdated and vows became suggestions.

Marriage used to mean I'll suffer with you. Now it means I'll stay as long as I'm happy. And that's why divorce is high. Because people don't know how to suffer together.
They only know how to quit when excitement is no longer there.

We are in the trenches!!

[Mind and Glory 🎖 @mindandglory]

An intelligent man never lets the memory of past failure write the script for future attempts. Reset. Begin again.

[💀 @rayihatalmatar]

@karirfess 2024

[Mind and Glory 🎖 @mindandglory]

The ultimate weapon is patience. Most men lose simply because they cannot wait.

[💀 @rayihatalmatar]

@cewekpusink 1. Potensi akan bawa kedamaian
2. Kekurangannya bisa ditolerir seumur hidup

Udah itu doang.

[💀 @rayihatalmatar]

Kalo di realitanya si korban tidak sesalah atau seburuk persepsi di kepalanya, narsistik akan memaksa apapun caranya si korban harus jadi nyata sesalah atau seburuk itu.

Narsistik butuh tetap merasa benar, bahkan meski kenyataannya bertolak belakang dengan persepsinya.

[Dear Son. @DearS_o_n]

No successful man who's chasing women.

Only a weak man is desperate for love and attention.

A strong man is focused on God, his purpose, and fixing himself.

[Mind and Glory 🎖 @mindandglory]

Win the war inside your mind first. The external battles will resolve themselves.

[💀 @rayihatalmatar]

Tadi pagi dichat si narsistik: tangan gemeter, jantung berdebar, pikiran kalut.

[💀 @rayihatalmatar]

@KangManto123 yah jangan pake strategi ginian lagi lah

[💀 @rayihatalmatar]

@trunkszoldyck king poci

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@VikirBaskervl Lo pada berantem, mereka ketawa bareng