@_cutePanda__ Because how dare you not want a child? I know i will leave you with it but JUST HAVE MY CHILD AND SUFFER
Men are so icky it's so shameful
No one is paying that much attention to you or your problems. We like to think of ourselves as the center of the world and we assume everyone notices us, our mistakes, our failings, our flaws etc.
The truth is people are self-absorbed & focused on their own lives, not yours. It may seem like everyone is looking at the mistakes you’re making & judging you, but they really aren’t. You walk around worrying that people are staring at the pimple on your forehead but really, no one is.
There is a cognitive bias known as the spotlight effect where individuals overestimate how much others notice, judge, or focus on their appearance, actions, and mistakes.
And because of that, we often develop unnecessary anxiety, self-consciousness & fear of judgement because we think the world is watching us closely. Many people even sink into depression because they think the world is judging them.
The fact is - people are more focused on themselves than they are on you.
Next time something embarrassing happens in your life and you’re worried about what the world will think, breathe - no one is even paying attention.
Grown women wear whatever they want. Grown women have cellulite. Grown women aren't occupying bodies of prepubscent girls. Perhaps, remove your pedophilic fatphobic asses from society you weirdos!
Nobody prepares you for the amount of pain and grief you experience when you have to forgive yourself for believing someone was actually a genuine person. The hardest part isn't just their betrayal, it's the shame you carry for ignoring your instincts.
One thing adulthood has taught me is that I am not above anything. Homelessness, death, no job, literally anything can happen. Hence, I must never be too quick to speak over situations I’ve never found myself in. No one is above anything, not even your good actions can save you from your fair share of trials.
Life is crazy. Tables turn. Always stay humble & be grateful. ✌
To: Ugandan parents with pre-primary school children. Please give up on chasing school fame, standards & glory . There will be no end!
Find an average school in walking distance. Teach your child how to communicate, manners & discipline.
The system is designed to choke you!
Conservative woman who likes wearing men’s clothing says how she was misgendered at the mall by a little girl.
The woman explained to the girl it’s fine, being a girl rocks, and if you’re born a girl then you’re a girl.
No indoctrination. Then the woman just went on her way.
Do not stop shaming these deadbeats please! Including those in the making. Talk talk talk and choke them. On that note Good morning @karemeradean. The school term where your daughter goes to school started on 29th January. Since you're sober now, maybe you can chip in. 🙏🏾
@MurithiJune @stella_ampaire @Dartte_45 Theres a lady that was sexually assualted for years, by her HUSBAND and other men the HUSBAND invited to do the same.
Imagine she was married to the man and never ever thought he would do that to her!!!
Should she be blamed for how he switched?😒😏 coz thats who she chose???🚮