I am so picky when it comes to dating. Last year I went to a street fair with this guy and he wouldn’t get his face painted with me and I was like immediately this is not anybody I want to be with bye
I saw a TikTok video where a girl talks about if you're creative and you're not actively creating and using that energy, it will instead come out in self-destructive ways; overthinking, anxiety, etc..and it has me gagged
I just saw a woman explain why she doesnt do 50/50 on dates and her reasoning gagged me.
She said : if i go alone id be paying for my meal, and if go on a date and pay 50/50 id still be paying for my meal so why would i want to get dressed up, spend energy on emotional labor, holding conversations, entertaining my date, if im just gonna pay for my own food anyway? Id rather wear my yoga set and scroll uninterrupted.
And couldnt have said that any better!!!
And one major problem with knowing too much or seeing things clearly is that you lose the ability to participate in certain illusions that make life easier for everyone else.
The older I get, the more I believe in the butterfly effect. If you hadn’t made that one small decision on that exact day, your life could be completely different now
Everything happens for a reason and it’s crazy how every choice we make affects our future
I'm a pretty good person. So... I only wanna be around pretty good people too. Not perfect people but good people, growing people, accountable people, loving people, fun people. That's it.
peak female experiences :
1. realizing u can wear whatever you want
2. becoming besties with your sister
3. friendships start turning 10+ years old
4. accepting your body
5. finally understanding your mother
6. de-centering men
7. developing a ferocious sense of self-love