alhamdulillah standar suami di islam itu yang QAWWAM, udah jelas dari dulu
ga kebayang semisalnya Nabi ﷺ pulang dakwah, perang, atau dagang, terus sampe rumah planga-plongo klemar-klemer demi “safe space” WKWKWKW
Hadaanallah (semoga Allah memberi kita hidayah)
@mkbijaksana No discredits to husbands who works their a$$ out there but WITH ALL DUE RESPECT urusan rumah tangga dan anak itu tanggung jawab BERDUA. Marriage is teamwork. Jgn krn kalian kerja dari pagi sampe sore, lalu mikir malemnya boleh ga ngapa2in. Trs istri lo kapan restnya?
@tubbirfess Auk dah. Kok bisa2nya ada manusia yg bangga diri sendiri bego di rumah + di hadapan anak istri 😭😭 kl bego mah belajar bukannya embracing your stupidity.
Oh iya blio sambil sekolah profesi dan juga sebagai pengajar + asesor di kantornya, he’s very certified in his job. I can testify that he’s a very busy man yet he can spend his time & energy with his family at home, by his own will. Alhamdulillah bi’idznillah.
Alhamdulillah my husband can’t relate 😭🙏🏻 kuncinya jadi laki jgn kebanyakan main sosmed atau nongkrong biar energy nya bisa dihabiskan di hal2 yg penting dlm hidup, dan orang2 yg penting dlm hidup kalian ga kebagian energy sisa2 doang di rumah 😆
@bardanslm Itu namanya safe space mas. Di luar rumah energi abis dipake buat mikir taktis dan strategis. Begitu pulang, otak otomatis shutdown karena tau rumah adalah tempat paling aman buat jadi "planga-plongo" tanpa takut dihakimi dan dinilai ga perform hehe.
saya sangat relate👆
Jadwal vaksin anak, kontrol hamil istri, pendidikan & tumbuh kembang anak, dll semuanya doi ikut control ga dilepas gitu aja ke istri dan bener2 keep track. He aces both in career & being the leader of our household. Not all men planga plongo di rumah ya ladies, thankfully.
I just finished watching #CanThisLoveBeTranslated this noon.. it took me so long cause I don’t want it to end 😭 and seriously idk the amount of times I felt like I wanted to just push their heads together and kiss. 😤