@GirlsChase Except you said to follow the 3 second rule and that most guys eject too early. How can I look for body language if I have to approach in 3 seconds and if I do leave what if I’m ejecting too early.
@GirlsChase But what about norm of reciprocity, where if you do something nice for someone they reflexively respond by doing something nice for you. Wouldn’t just asking her to do things for you make her reject it or resent you unless you first did it for her.
@GirlsChase But if it’s based on successful experiences if you have a string of bad experiences would you spiral and lose confidence. Also wouldn’t your confidence be limited to the type of women and context you have success in falling into the frame of the box society puts you in.
@GirlsChase But wouldn’t she just get jealous and reject. I heard some guys claim a girl they scheduled a date with saw them on a date or with girls on social media who then suddenly blocked them.
@GirlsChase If neediness and incongruence are unattractive, wouldn’t trying to learn and use game make you more unattractive since you’re investing more in a result and thus being more needy, and trying a new behavior which would be incongruent to your normal behavior.
@GirlsChase but how does that mesh with concepts like rule breakers are attractive, being nice is boring not arousing, be dominant, they don’t have to like you etc.
@GirlsChase But isn’t it the same effect in person because of all the guys who approach them in person. I’ve seen average women complain about how they’re always being approached.
@GirlsChase So explain
1. Women saying they find it attractive, see examples:
https://t.co/7CvZFbMMoF
2. This study found vulnerability produced closeness
https://t.co/iXfYbnN01f
3. men reporting the book models by Manson helped them & it suggests vulnerability
https://t.co/pxfjvEi1IR
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@GirlsChase But of you ask questions fast won’t they be resistant to answer due to not knowing or valuing you and feel like you are desperate to get to know them