Yang lagi ramai gaes...
Calon Paskibraka di Sulawesi Selatan Cathlyn (Chindo) kena diskualifikasi karena dianggap
nggak bisa bahasa daerah...
Tapi yg bikin netizen marah, penggantinya datang antah berantah, Cathlyn ini rangking 3, seharusnya penggantinya dari urutan di bawahnya..
Sedangkan ini yg gantiin (hijab) dari rangking diluar 10 besar... Ayo netizen kerja, ini anaknya siapa kebelet mau jadi Paskibraka...
cc:threadutasdigi
Kenyataan pahitnya adalah : Beberapa orang memilih untuk hilang selamanya dari hidup kamu hanya karena mereka tidak cukup dewasa untuk menghadapi kenyataan bahwa mereka telah berbuat salah sama kamu.
Mereka tahu mereka salah, dan tahu kamu tidak layak diperlakukan seperti itu.
Namun, karena mereka enggan bertanggung jawab, mereka memilih untuk menciptakan narasi palsu tentang dirimu, agar mereka tidak merasa bersalah pada diri mereka sendiri…
Tau ga uniknya kerja di instansi RS Halodek?
Ada 2 pasien datang bersamaan, 1 Ibu-ibu dengan abortus inkomplit dan perdarahan pervaginam aktif dan 1 lagi pasien KLL dengan crush injury di bagian kaki.
Kira-kira mana yang paling gawat dan harus ditangani duluan?
Ya, betul sekali…
Yang harus diutamakan untuk dilayani terlebih dahulu adalah, seorang perwira dengan meriang, batuk pilek dan nyeri tenggorokan sejak kemarin malam karena 1 jam lagi mau ada rapat 💪👍
You didn't lose him, he lost vou because what did you really lose? A man who can't communicate? A man who gets mad when you express your feelings? A man who entertains other women? An emotionally unavailable man? No, you didn't lose anything of value. You gained the freedom to find someone who truly values and respects you, who can communicate effectively, and who is emotionally available. You gained everything by letting go of a man who never deserved you in the first place.
Divorce happens and then you realize you don't actually hate sex — you hate having your body used as a plaything for someone else's emotional regulation.
Pernah diselingkuhi dulu. MARAH BGT. Tapi gw milih mempermalukan pasangan gw daripada selingkuhannya. (Ini pun gw nyesel sih, harusnya move on aja langsung HAHAHA jgn ditiru. Maklum darah anak muda)
Menurut gw, senekat apapun perempuan lain ke pasangan kita, kalo lakinya bener, ga akan terjadi.
Btw pasca diselingkuhi, gw malah temenan ama selingkuhannya. Dia malah curhatin hubungan dia sama mantan gw. Aneh jg ya gw HAHA. Tapi yauda gitu aja.
I chose to make a peace with it.
Jangan mudah jatuhin perempuan lain (org ketiga, or keempat or kelima wkwkw), most of the time sumber masalahnya ada di pasangan kita sendiri.
i detach very fast. Anything i love extremely deeply I'm prepared to lose. It can break my heart but I have learned how to keep going. It can seem cold, but if it takes me off my pivot..l'll cut my finger off to save my hand. I can’t lose myself again, for anything. I'Il heal.
Men don't realize what a woman might go through.
She could spend months pouring her heart out, begging a man to get it together, asking for nothing more than the bare minimum in return—respect, effort, and basic love. She’ll be patient, holding onto hope that he’ll change, that things will get better, that he’ll finally see the value of what she brings to the table.
But the day she decides she’s done, the day she finally decides she won’t keep asking for the same thing over and over, that’s when he suddenly tries to “make things right.” He’ll tell everyone he tried, he’ll claim he did all he could, but she didn’t care.
What he won’t admit, what he’ll never mention, is that she had been repeating the same words, asking for the same respect, pleading for the same effort—long before she realized it was time to walk away. She didn’t leave lightly; she left after exhausting every ounce of patience and hope.
Remember this: you don’t deserve to beg for the bare minimum. No one should have to ask for the love, respect, and effort that should come naturally in a healthy relationship. Never settle for less than you deserve.
You know what really ends a relationship? Not the fight. Not the betrayal. Not the first time they hurt you. Not even the times they apologize and promise to change but fail. What truly ends it is something much quieter, yet infinitely more painful. It’s when you find the courage to be honest, to open your heart, and say, “This hurt me,” and instead of hearing you, understanding you, and making the effort to change, they continue the same behavior over and over again. That’s the moment when the truth hits you like a cold wave—you realize it’s not that they didn’t know, it’s not that they were unaware of the pain they caused; it’s that they simply don’t care enough to do better.
It’s in that repeated disregard that love quietly dies. Words like “I’m sorry” become meaningless, promises become empty air, and every excuse begins to sound hollow. You start to see the pattern clearly: their apologies are just words, their intentions are just appearances, and their love was conditional on your silence or compliance. That’s when the heartbreak deepens—not because they hurt you, but because you see the real truth: they are incapable of valuing your feelings, incapable of changing, and incapable of meeting you where you need them.
And once that realization sinks in, you can’t ignore it. No charm, no pleading, no memories of better times can convince you otherwise. The relationship dies quietly, like a flame suffocated by smoke, leaving behind only the knowledge that staying would mean continuing to sacrifice your worth, your peace, and your dignity. You begin to understand that letting go isn’t about giving up—it’s about finally giving yourself the respect, the love, and the care that they were never willing to give. And in that, there is a bitter but liberating clarity: sometimes the real heartbreak is realizing they never truly chose you, and the real healing begins the moment you choose yourself.
The fastest way to emotionally detach from someone you truly love is to give them complete freedom and watch what they choose when they are no longer being held by expectations. In psychology, this shows the ability to let go of emotional dependence and give others the space to reveal their true priorities. If they stay, their presence is sincere. If they walk away, the loss belongs to them, not to you.
This is really not the time to fumble a good partner.. in love, friendship, or business. You might never get that chance again. Everyone isn’t replaceable. It's nasty out here. Stay sharp, show respect, and value the people who actually show up.
Abis liat live Pinkan Mambo (masih) jualan donut.
“Ibu, donut kita fresh. Bukan dibikin kemarin. Donut kita bikin hari ini, besok dikirim”
YA SAMA AJA DONG DEWI QUAN IN 😭😭😭
LET'S PRAY 🙏🏽
Dear God, as I enter this Sunday, I ask for your peace to wash over my soul. Calm my anxieties and fears as I prepare for the week ahead. Give me strength and courage to face challenges, and help me be a beacon of love and kindness to those around me. Guide my steps and bless my heart with your grace. Amen.