We have a welfare class that doesn't work, sits in Section 8 housing all day smoking and ordering Doordash with EBT, yet the "bootstraps" message isn't directed at them (that would be "racist") but at men who are mostly working at least 40 hrs, often in physically demanding jobs.
White people really have no theory of mind for the kinda insane shit browns get up to when nobody is looking.
- Never as a Latina why she kisses her dad like that.
- Never ask a black dude who he lost his virginity to.
- Never ask a Hasidic about the tunnel matress.
- Never ask a Muslim why his brother has birth defects.
- Never ask an Indian about their Indiana Jones, comically evil religion.