i'm a firm believer kalau orang memang harus gerak dulu untuk bisa maju TAPI seharusnya semua orang punya dasar safety net yang paling nggak sama. gerak di saat ada hutang vs gerak di saat nggak bingung besok makan apa ya pasti beda
always check your own attitude too. it's not always the world around you, sometimes you are the toxic person. understand that you make mistakes and can hurt people. understand that there are things you need to work on. apologise, unlearn, and relearn, that's growth