@fatfabfeminist The argument it would reduce abuse towards woman seems so entirely wrong. Serial killers donโt start by killing people. Once the excitement wears off itโll escalate and now theyโve had the opportunity to practice what they like.
a lab in the netherlands scanned couples during orgasm and stumbled onto the strangest finding in sex research.
when women wore socks, the orgasm rate jumped from 50% to 80%
the researchers weren't studying socks. the scanning room was cold, some women complained, socks were offered. suddenly the success rate exploded and the team realized they'd accidentally run the most important experiment of the study
the mechanism showed up right on the brain scans. female orgasm requires the amygdala, the brain's fear and threat detection center, to power down. cold feet kept the threat system quietly online. warm feet let it switch off. that tiny bit of physical discomfort was enough to block the entire cascade
- her brain cannot climax and scan for problems at the same time. the systems are neurologically mutually exclusive
- socks are a stand-in for the real variable: comfort. temperature, privacy, no time pressure, no risk of interruption, nothing pinching or hurting. every small discomfort is a tax on the fear center
- this is why the same technique works one night and fails the next. the variable that changed wasn't your hands. it was her nervous system's threat level
- the environment is doing foreplay before you touch her. warm room, locked door, no rush, phone away
men study techniques for years and lose to a cold room. her nervous system decides if orgasm is possible before your skills ever enter the conversation. handle the amygdala first. the socks were never about socks
If you sabotage your divine connection w a soulmate that was sent by GOD for you to build with, break curses with, and elevate with- you wonโt ever love the same way again this lifetime. Whether you cheated, let rumors deter you from the relationship or simply were too stuck in your head to actually commit- your karma WILL BE the obsession you have w that person + the crippling GUILT and SHAME that eats you alive bc your soul KNOWS that you let something get in between your gift from God. You forfeitted your destiny when you released that relationship bc that person was supposed to be a part of it.
Banter & wittiness is such a dying art because people donโt read and lack nuance. But I just loveee when I can be facetious with someone and they GET IT.