Always follow what price is doing, not what you want it to do.
The moment you start forcing what you want to see, you’ll miss what price is actually showing you.
Na from there some unnecessary losses dey enter 😂
Stop comparing your trading journey to someone else’s.
Someone is making 10% while you’re making 2%.
Someone just passed a challenge while you’re still struggling.
Someone is buying cars while you’re still protecting your capital.
That doesn’t mean you’re behind.
Your only real competition is the trader you were yesterday.
Focus on your execution.
Focus on your discipline.
Focus on becoming consistent.
The market doesn’t reward the fastest trader.
It rewards the trader who survives long enough to master the game.
Always follow what price is doing, not what you want it to do.
The moment you start forcing what you want to see, you’ll miss what price is actually showing you.
Na from there some unnecessary losses dey enter 😂
Simple final explanation. If you still don't get it, that is your problem.
If you earn N3m and your woman earns N700k, family income is N3.7m. From there you sort your bills, send money to both families, keep a portion each for personal expenses, save and invest.
It is not about volume, it is about vakue. That is why a woman who earns N100k whose income goes to the family is better than the ome that earns N1m but keeps her money to herself. Because her money is in the home, she is more committed to it. With each passing month you do this as a family, she is looking forward to earning more and contributing more just like younare looking to.earn more and contribute more. You can see your family working, bills sorted, savings going up and investment handled.
It wouldn't matter tomorrow if she earns N10m and you make N7m. Over the years, you've both carried the home together as a team. There is no ego or selfishness, just partnership of two people in love committed to the home they are building.
There is no woman that loves you that would sit and watch you carry the bills. That talk of "I'll support" and "I'll come in when he is struggling" is nonsense. That is not how partnership work. You fave the storm together, all day, everyday.
Also, no man is carrying all the bills out of love. It is just ego. That is why he will rather die than partner with his woman, but he can be borrowing money from his guys outside. Yet, the woman's financial progress threatens him if it shows potential to surpass his income because they are not a team. He just needs to always be miles ahead for the marriage to work.
I saw a top trader talking about what it means to be profitable, and one thing he made known was "TIME". You have to put in time to be profitable, profitability doesn't comes from your mentor, it comes from the time you have put in to gather enough data.
We got into the woke world and they’ve told everyone ‘You deserve to be happy’
Like nope.. You will work for your happiness ni.. You will sacrifice for it.. You will try and be happy!
When you were under your parents, were you happy happy ?
Was it all happiness all the way with your mom & dad ?
Living with your siblings growing up, were they not super annoying ? Didn’t you love them regardless ?
Exactly!
Don’t let anybody sell ‘As long as you’re happy’ to you when it comes to relationships
If you think one person will be waking you up everyday with roses on the bed + breakfast in bed and all those things you read in novels.. mo sorry gan
Relationship/Marriage is WORK.. You will put in ACTUAL WORK on a daily to keep it going
Oya ask married people how many times they’ve had the almighty 3:00am hot sex
Mchew!.. Better wake up to reality.
If she notices you’re placing her needs/goals/vision ABOVE yours(same you that she ought to be looking up to)
She’d realize she can’t trust you to lead her and punish you for it.
Gotta RESPECT Women fr fr.
Nobody is wired to disrespect you because you are broke. You believing it is what makes you foolish.
Everybody knows what they are doing.
Don't you know the population of poor people in this country and the number of married ones among them? Why is it your own that is "wired" to be disrespectful?
You can use wiring to defend and encourage anything - cheating, polygamy, violence, indifference, stonewalling, abuse, irresponsibility.
Nobody is wired to do shit. Everybody knows what they are doing like mad.
Go to your ChatGPT and input this prompt:
If I died and a stranger Found this phone, and they asked about its owner, based on
everything you know about me, what would you tell them?
quote me with the replies you get.
Praying to never have money issues so your wife doesn't disrespect you already says a lot about you, your wife, and the marriage you have.
We don't need more details.