T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀

Unfiltered talk on Life, Love, Marriage and the chaos in between | Melophile | Freethinker | Gooner🏆 @Arsenal

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

About last night...

I finally went outside, and I am here to tell you that, nothing dey outside.

It’s just expensive drinks and pure chaos.
Outside na scam. The streets are empty.

Please, I am home, If you need me 🏠☕️

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

@masurge7 Why? 😂

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

@innocool4u "Every family has that one person"
This is wrong, It should be "Some Families".

Some families are actually all millionaires, while some don't compete for who will reach millionaire status first because they rise together.

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

My friend and former colleague just called me and the call has just left my heart heavy 💔

She had a solid job here, good income and some assets.
Despite all warnings and pleas, she sold everything to "japa".

I was heartbroken because I saw no reason for her to start from scratch.

I kept telling her and reminding her that she was doing well here, but the pressure to join the bandwagon was too much.

Now, she’s calling, crying, saying the reality on ground over there isn't what she expected at all.
She is currently planning to return back to Nigeria to start from afresh.

People need to stop making life-altering decisions just because you see others doing it. What works for someone else might be your undoing.

Our paths and our timelines are completely different.
Don’t trade your peace and established foundation for a perceived "better life" that you're not even sure of.

It’s okay to stay and bloom where you are if that’s where your grace is.

I'm actually pained right now and hope she finds the strength to navigate this phase, however it ends.🚨

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

If you see red flags in your partner, run!🏃‍♀️💨 Whether it’s the constant victimization, aggression or clear signs of narcissism, don’t ignore your gut.

Recognizing those toxic traits early is the only way to save your sanity.

Sometimes we ignore red flags because we want to see the best in people, but narcissism, aggression and the constant "victim" mentality are not things to manage, they are things to avoid.

Protect your mental health and choose peace over a toxic situation.✨

Stop trying to "fix" people at the expense of your own peace.

Identify the pattern and block accordingly. 🚩

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

You see those red flags you’re managing today, they're just waiting for the right time to show you pepper.

Stop ignoring red flags, you're not their messiah!

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

Many people are unhappy in their marriages simply because they are chasing a 'perfect' script.

If you go into marriage looking for perfection, you’ve already started the journey to unhappiness.

Embrace the flaws and find your happiness in the middle.

[oseni rufai @ruffydfire]

In the name of defending sycophancy everyone mama na akara seller

Olodo uprising

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

One day, unannounced, that Lagos you people are living in will go under water and it will be like a Sci-Fi movie.

[Morris Monye @Morris_Monye]

You can’t sell Akara in a flooded, raining environment.

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

@Vagandos 😱 accept my condolence.
May his rest in peace 🤲

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

There is no pain quite like burying your own child, its a pain no parent should ever have to experience 💔🕊️

May God comfort every parent grieving such a loss. 🕯️🙏

[Tisan @PhatboiSham_ah]

Went to pay condolences to a colleague who lost a sibling over the weekend, and something incredibly wholesome happened.

​From the gate, the dad saw us and instantly goes, "This must be Tisan." Walked into the living room, the mum said the exact same thing. Then one of the siblings literally called our names one by one.

​E shock me, but it was so beautiful. That family’s bond and communication level must be top tier fr.

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

@callmeMEJE Some of us do stock up at the end of the month so that sapa will not affect feeding 😂

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

@tommy45afi God abeg 😂

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

When you love and cherish your woman, her love for you makes her want to give back even more.
It’s a beautiful cycle; you can never out-gift a wife who truly adores you.

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

@EgoOyibo77 💯 💯 💯

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

Not everyone gets a fairytale ending!

Recognizing this is the ultimate hack for inner peace.

Stop chasing scripts that aren't yours.

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

@zitiemmale9g Exactly! You'll become exhausted and burnt out.

[T𝚛ḯ𝚜ԩ 🎀 @realTrish_]

Growth is a beautiful journey.

From glory to glory 🤗 always leveling up.

God is good ❤️✨