When she cancels the date or flakes on you, don’t chase. Be indifferent.
Say to her:
Get back to me when you’re available. Put the ball in her court.
If she’s genuinely interested, she’ll make effort to reschedule.
She’s taking you for granted and doesn’t value your presence because you’re predictable and always available.
Disappear for a while. Cut off contact unannounced. Go get busy living your life.
She’ll pull closer to you. If not, move on.
If she says:
I’ll let you know.
Don’t reach out to her. Let silence do its work.
If she’s genuinely interested, she’ll reach out. Move onto another chick.
Fellas, adopt this mindset:
I am interviewing her as much as she’s interviewing me.
My time is valuable.
I’m interested, but I have options.
I’ll pursue what I want, but I won’t beg for her attention.
Fellas, adopt this mindset:
I am interviewing her as much as she’s interviewing me.
My time is valuable.
I’m interested, but I have options.
I’ll pursue what I want, but I won’t beg for her attention.