The most fascinating part of the stokvel conversation was the Bond stokvel where you get to contribute R450 000 to your bond from a R14 000 a month contribution.
I did ask if there is an actuary in her stokvel she laughed and said yes one them is a CA because you have to be thinking on a higher level to start and maintain something like that.
What does it mean if you feel pretty self assured and regulated when you're single but when you date someone it feels like you just got set back 10 years in healing and progress