Cheating is a character flaw and I wish people weren’t so forgiving about it. It shows a willingness to deceive, to prioritize short-term desire over integrity, and to disregard the trust someone else has placed in them.
Disgusting.
I love a “let’s go on a date” “let’s go do something” type of person. It don’t even have to be anything expensive. Just to know you want to be in my presence and do something with me says a lot.