My contribution to society is that I won’t have bridesmaids.
All my life, I’ve heard bridesmaids complain so I don’t want to put anyone through that.😭👍🏽
whatever you do please don't be a terrible step mom to someone's child. You cannot love him and not his children, doesn't Add up. A partner who has a child or children comes as a Package deal. Same way you would want him to love your children, do the same with his Children.
You can spend 2 years with the same person, adjust your your routine to fit theirs, get to a point where their mood affects your mood and they will wake up one day and say they don’t love you anymore and walk away from your life and There is nothing you can do about it
I am not South African but I understand their frustrations, the Congolese brothers who were once refugees seeking asylum are now running drug cartels in 🇳🇦