@Dearme2_ There is wisdom in slowing down. God created us to work, but also to rest and trust Him.
May we find peace in His presence and not let the pressures of life steal our joy.
I sit quietly and realize that God has been taking care of me this whole time. Maybe not in luxurious ways. Maybe not an easy life. But through protection,provision, good health, surviving hard days and always having just enough to keep going.
Sharing your life with someone means doing less, not more. It means being fully supported, not someone competing against you. It means offloading to-do lists and responsibilities, not taking on more than you ever have.
Love is simple, not a struggle.
Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control.
“I never lost feelings” can be true, while giving up is still the healthiest choice.
The standard is not whether love remains. It is whether your care is being met with clarity, consistency, and willingness. Walking away can be the moment you stop asking someone to choose what their behaviour has already answered.