If she's not:
- Your wife
- Your mom
- Your daughter
- Your sister
- Your "friend"
Or related to you somehow
There's ZERO reason to help her. You have no responsibility whatsoever to random women
No hard working man gives a woman 24hrs, even 12hrs of his time. Donβt let all these jobless/directionless men make you think your man doesnβt care about you
Learn OR perish!!!
Fellas:
Paying for "your" woman's education whether dating or married is far riskier than betting
It is a foolish man's quest to try and uplift a woman. It'll most likely end in tears
A woman has no equal, either she's inferior or superior to you. And she'll definitely leave you once she thinks she's superior
You're are not dating or married her to educate her. You're not her father. If her father didn't educate her, why should you
Once you pay her fees she starts viewing you as her father or big brother, she will lose all attraction and go for a new man
In your foolish quest to uplift a woman, you're only making her visible to other men
Learn OR perish!!!
No one drives a stolen car gently
They will hit the accelerator to the max, be rough with it on the road, countless rounds with it, only abandon it when it's gas tank is empty
Remember that, when the car is returned
This post isn't about cars
Learn OR perish!!!
DON'T BE A WILL SMITH
Will Smith could have easily been remembered as one of the best actors of his generation but he will now be remembered as the poster boy for simping. His image is ruined beyond repair, all because he picked a damaged woman for a wife. This is why it is very important to avoid damaged women
Many men suffer from the "save a damsel in distress" syndrome. This is a result of being programmed that women are these innocent beings, if they're damaged in any way, a man must step up to save them. What this mentality fails to recognize is, these women are not victims but architectures of their own misery
There's a saying, water seeks it's level, meaning guys who think or tell women with bad men things like "he doesn't deserve you, you're better than this" are too stupid to realize that's her actual type. She doesn't need any saving, she's right where she should be
Will Simp formerly Will Smith made the mistake of trying to save Jada Pinket, this was a woman who had been around a thug, fascinated, obsessed with this thug, Tupac. He thought it was his chance when Tupac died to prove to Jada, how much of a better man he was.
This was his biggest mistake ever, because if a woman has a history of rewarding evil, she'll not appreciate goodness. Sure she may accept the good gestures but she will not appreciate them. And eventually, sooner or later, she'll punish you for it. It's not a matter of IF but WHEN
There's that saying never take a wounded stray home, because once it's healed, it will bite you and go back to the streets where you found it. In simple terms, yes a damaged woman can be with you, the good guy (out of desperation) and she'll be accepting of your good gestures, treating her like a queen. But in reality she'll always thirst for that bad boy who treated her like shit
She doesn't want to be pedestalized but objectified. As twisted as that is, that's just how it is, she will reward the sins of strength and punish the good deeds of weakness. Now with this knowledge, don't try to go and about trying to be captain save a thot, let damaged women be
You will never be a damaged woman's greatest lover, she'll always compare you to that shitty guy. She's emotionally cold to kindness, care or love, she'll interpret it as weakness. Her emotions can only be triggered by the opposite of that. Meaning if you want to deal with a damaged woman (which I strongly disagree with) then you will have to match or overshadow the toxicity of every other man she's been involved with
But is it worth it, instead you can just go for a woman who hasn't been damaged. Learn OR perish!!!
Relationships end when Women want them to.
Thousands of men have been unhappy in their relationships for years fighting hard for a woman that would be out of the door if she were 2% dissatisfied.
Itβs an uncomfortable truth but itβs the truth.
Men have to fight for everything.
You need to have your heart broken.
You need to have it completely fucking crushed.
The women you love needs to fuck someone else and your dad needs to die and your business needs to fail.
You need to get knocked the fuck asleep.
You need to go to jail and sit alone, with cockroaches for months.
And you need to be laughed at and humiliated.
And then you need to get back up.
Dust yourself off.
Look yourself in the eyes.
And smile.
Because they havnt stopped you... have they?
Maybe... just maybe..
Well, it at least seems like....
They cant stop you.
They CANT stop you.
One of the worst things that can happen to you as a man is being broke. If you're a man in this world with no income, you'll suffer in this world. It's degrading, your dignity takes a knock.
No one respects a man with no source of income. Your parents are ashamed of you. They will compare you to their peers children. Your siblings will belittle you. Even if you're the first born, if you're broke you're reduced to the status of the last born
Your whole family discard you, family meetings or events you're excluded, at most you're manual labour. The disrespect is transferred to your wife & children as well, they're manual labour too
Your friends if they don't avoid you, they will make you their ice boy. You'll be reduced to referring to your peers as "boss", "chief" etc. Your woman will not respect you, especially if she's earning, she'll constantly remind you, who's paying the bills
Your kids won't even respect you as well, after all you can't provide them with the things they desire. Yes, your kids will be ashamed of you, e.g they won't tell you of school meetings to avoid being embarrassed
Even your community doesn't respect you, you will always be the object of scorn & ridicule. Whenever they're accusations in the community especially about thieving, you're the 1st suspect, guilty till proven innocent
It's hard being a broke man, but as hard as it is, just keep on trying your best. To every man out there, trying his best, I hope things get better for you soon. Learn OR perish!!!
Young man, never let a broke stupid street urchin make you feel less of a man cause you haven't reached the stage of the old men she prostitutes herself to. A woman who uses her private part(s) as a source of income, has no authority to call any man "broke". It's never about her doing better than you, but being with men doing better than you, she's actually a loser. Learn OR perish!!!