You men er some of you donโt learn. You see how he wanted answer to make her happy but when it got to her turn she chose her mum & was strict with it. You people should continue pleasing women & donโt learn sense. Theyโll always put themselves 1st, so do same Yoo๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
Men are suffering and incurring losses in marriage because they misread the environment that produced the woman they married.
In societies like Nigeria, marriage is not built on love.
It is built on survival alignment.
But the Nigerian man, like men from similar climes, walks into marriage with poetry in his chest and blindness in his eyes.
He leads with love, and promisesโฆ in a system governed by pressure, scarcity, and incentives.
He sees affection and thinks it love.
He feels compliance and calls it loyalty.
Meanwhile, the woman is responding to relief.
Relief from bills, uncertainty, instability, and the silent terror of being stranded.
Remove that pressure, and you will meet her unfiltered nature.
Not because she changed - sometimes she changed - but because the condition that held her in place expired.
These man?
He marries like Nigeria is heaven.
He forgets that if hardship built the bond, comfort will test it.
He forgets that if money is the glue, a higher bidder is always a threat.
So when reality shifts - when he goes broke, when she earns more, when she relocate - he lazily calls it betrayal.
But it is not betrayal. It is exposure.
A man who builds on emotion in a survival system is not romantic.
He is structurally irresponsible.
Men do not lose their marriage and ofcourse resources, to a woman.
They lose it to ignorance of what was holding it together.
Happy 121st birthday to Chelsea Football Club:
- The first club in history to win all major UEFA club trophies.
- The second most successful English club in European competitions after Liverpool.
- The only London club to win the FIFA intercontinental cup.
- The only club in history to win all major European trophies twice (before the Conference League).
- The only London club to win the Champions League.
- The first club in history to win the Europa League without losing a game.
- The club with the best ever defensive record in Europeโs top 5 leagues.
- The club with the best defensive record for a Champions League winning team.
- The only club to ever hold the Champions League and Europa League trophies at the same time.
- One of the founding members of the Champions League.
- The first club to win the Ballon dโOr Club
Of the Year award.
- The first club to win the FIFA Club World Cup.
WE ARE GARGANTUAN!!! ๐ช๐พ๐