@ladycarpenter01@kenkenlewu You will hear statements like:
"Don't speak vernacular whenever I am around, only speak english."
"Don't touch my waist when we are outside."
A lot of "no love lost" kind of boundaries that I can't even remember at this time.
Nice guy eyes dey see shege.
Na serious loss sha.
@GbengaWemimo Many sisters won't hid to warning. they believe they are special and they can hide behind the cloak of Christianity innocence, because no one would suspect them of such heinous acts. I was with a sister that did this with a group of guys who, in one way or another, knows each...
@guzu_p There are quite a number of lowkey people in this country with serious number of zeros appended to their accounts.
We will, one day sooner than we expect, have such accounts too. Amen.
@Theoladeledada Words can't tell enough what i went through with a similar experience. I am still reeling in the fall-outs. She literally pulled me closer to God, but then her moral compass is so broken, prayers alone can't fit it. She lives her life like nothing else matters more than church.
@Chimaforkeeps The signs are usually obviously there. He must have ignored them. I once dated a girl who, everytime, downloads piggyvest app, send her money there, then delete the app and repeats the process whenever she wants to deposit more or withdraw some to use for her frivolous spending.
@shubhvanii Typical example of "bad relationships change good people".
You will always gain less than you lose in situations like this, if you don't guard your heart on time.
@Priye644455 I love what the shared laughter signifies. It shows you are both forthcoming with each other. Nothing comes as a surprise or an afterthought. Everything between you two is always mentioned, explained and discussed upfront with sheer transparency. No secrets or hide-aways.
Perfect
@Priye644455 Yes it is.
It's also important to make sure you never act in a way that allow or give room for doubt. Don't put yourself in situations that you know could cause a dent in trust. When you have someone who is effortlessly transparent. Just do the same. Trust is a two-way street.
@soigomaa So true. When you find yourself, someone who always make efforts to keep that child-like excitement fire in you burning, then you have found the one for you.