When you possess a healthy self-esteem, spread positivity and lift up people on a daily basis it can be contagious. You can achieve whatever you want if someone is displaying to you are very much worthy.
Never doubt those intuitive feelings you get about people. If they rub you the wrong way, see that as a clear sign to remove yourself. Listen to your spirit...it knows.
Not taking everything personal is a sign that you're healing. You understand that people are going to be who they are and that has nothing at all to do with you.
I don't get revenge. I get justice. While you're gossiping, being malicious, spreading rumors, whispering, and sending evil eyes, I'll be filing that paperwork.
Sometimes your goodness reminds people of how messed up they are, so they paint you as the bad guy to avoid taking accountability for how they treated you.
Trauma changes you ..like it literally alters your DNA, damages your mental health and takes a toll on your quality of living ..THIS is why we heal ..THIS is why we detach and go into solitude.