@Oji_yellow A passive and also controlling husband would not step in to stop her from destroying herself for the sake of the marriage. He would only say something if it hurt him or the the idea of losing her. Not if she lost herself. He would let her sacrifice herself for him.
@beherleader Yes if men were not present who would she be nagging? A child? Why yes she would. Children create nagging.
A man that acts like a child creates nagging. All nagging. If he’s not a child in his behavior, there’s no nagging.
@beherleader Not in an explicit and direct way. It beats around the idea he is responsible for her nagging. You actually talk more about correcting her behavior (kindly) than that he’s the root cause of ALL nagging. Could be more accountable in your post to the root cause. I repeat
@Samthrillz Weak passive men always pass on the responsibility to the women they are attracted to. That’s the true nature of Obsession. Weak passive men create a ripple of disfunction.
@bluewmist Be careful who you show your emotions to. If you are around selfish, low emotional intelligence type people, you will be even more depressed. In fact, it could be the very reason you are depressed in the first place. Who you surround yourself with is vital to your health.
@Samthrillz Yes, when men have no confidence they steal life force from the women they are attracted to. Women are always destroyed by men who are weak and afraid. Bear’s Obsession for Nikki ultimately destroyed her and she didn’t see it coming. She didn’t get to choose but he did. Weak!
@drjenwolkin Also, it helps if there’s a purpose to keep us going. When things get too easy or complacent, we disintegrate completely. We need targets to show up; deadlines or emergencies to respond to. My kids going off to college really hit hard because now I had time to work on me and wtf
@Zaira583642 add 21, 22 & 23: used a card catalog to look up books in the library, watched television on a black and white TV, rode in a car no seat belts.
@DDoback48@Joelrw_au Scoring isn’t the only mechanism in the game. Not letting another team score on you is just as relevant and rewarding. Baseball has the same system of play but far more boring. 🥱