Tal vez el dananananana de PTD no me sea eterno, pero créanme que mi amor por los 7 se va a quedar hasta el final 💜. Gracias por todo su esfuerzo y amor, gracias por ser una de mis razones para reír cada día y no rendirme, en verdad, gracias por salvarme
"He personally selected the artworks alongside curators, wrote exhibition texts in both Korean and English, recorded audio guides in both languages, and even curated the background music for the exhibition hall"
💜 namjoon worked so hard
GENTEEE, por algún motivo el documental de Nam de RPWP está completo en yutu con subs (en inglés, los subs automáticos no están taaan malos), está subido hace más de un año, no se como no lo han bajado).
Si no lo han visto aún, HÁGANLO, de verdad.
https://t.co/dmjZDIL3Dx
La nostalgia que nos va a pegar a todas cuando pasen los años y recordemos el tour arirang como uno de las mejores cosas que pudimos haber presenciado 😭
Sometimes we make the same mistake with the artists we stan as we do with our partners or friends: expecting one relationship to be our everything.
We unconsciously expect one partner, friend or even a parasocial relationship to provide for all we need for intimacy, fun, friendship, identity & even meaning (including political action). It’s a recipe for disappointment, especially for those of us prone to limerence
Perhaps this is part of what Joon has been working through for years. Finding more hills to lean on
The solution isn’t to care less, but to walk, move more through our world with a sense of fun, calling & love
namjoon una vez dijo y no se equivocó:
“No soy un maldito diplomático
… me están presionando para que dé un paso al frente
¿Como si yo representara algo?
Todo lo que represento es a mí mismo”
RM- Groin
yk namjoon said smth back in 2022 talking abt the lies and reactions that spread after their festa dinner that always saddens me he said: “the courage to be honest always leads to unnecessary misunderstandings and anger.” and i think this is the saddest part about all of this +
🐨 제 친구 한 명이 이런 말을 해줬어요
“난 네가 두 가지 모습(김남준 아님 RM)으로 사는 걸 좀 더 과감하게 받아들였으면 좋겠어. 아예 끝까지 해보는 거야. 팀에 있을 때는 그냥 팝스타로서 할 수 있는 걸 마음껏 해. 완벽하게 해내려고 해도 되고, 계속 더 잘하려고 해도 돼. 그리고 그걸 즐겨
하지만 다시 너만의 사적인 시간으로 돌아오면, 그냥 너 자신으로 있어. 하고 싶은 말이 있으면 뭐든 하고, 속에 있는 것도 그냥 털어놔. 그 두 역할을 각각 더 충실하게, 더 잘 해낼 수 있어. 다만 그 둘을 억지로 하나로 만들려고 하지는 마. 내 생각엔 네가 느끼는 불안감도 바로 거기에서 오는 것 같아”
그 말이 저한테 정말 큰 도움이 됐어요. 물론 가끔은 그렇게 사는 것 자체가 정말 어렵지만요.
정말 좋은 조언이었어요
i actually think it's good that all these people that want unlimited access to bts get a wake up call. the tannies are older, they're lives are more balanced than their early career that they can prioritize their private life and personal time- right before this comeback i had this convo with my moots
the new normal for us and them was always going to be less lives and less access to their every movement because that's the only sustainable way for the future as they focus not just on their careers, but their personal lives. before, they were working tirelessly to establish their music, break into the industry, and nearly lost themselves in the process because of the nonstop schedules and content.
they've made that establishment now, and in no way was it ever sustainable to keep that pace forever. so its good those that expect constant access and dominion over the boys get a reality check and leave now. what they want will never happen and thank god it won't
Part of a 2021 reply to the question: “How would you like the love between you and your fans to unfold in the future?”
“…이런 소망은 있어요. 우리가 어른이 되어가는 과정 속에서 각자의 방식으로 서로를 응원하면서, 지금의 거리를 유지해가는 평행선 같은 사랑이었으면 좋겠다”
“…I do have this hope. As we go through the process of becoming adults, I hope ours can be a love like parallel lines, maintaining the distance we now have while supporting each other in our own respective ways” (A more literal translation)
“…But I do have this hope. As we grow and mature, I hope we'd be able to cheer each other on in our own ways, and that our love would be the kind that allows us to keep our current distance as we walk alongside each other”
Source: GQ Australia’s translation of RM: "I want to free myself in order to exist as the Real Me." (23 Dec 2021)
Lo que ha querido decir nj esta tan claro pero a muchos les falla la comprension cuando se trata de él. Si no te reemplanteas tu vida y dejas que el trabajo consuma todo de ti, es dejar de tener una identidad estable. Porque dejenme decirles que el trabajo la consume sin darte cuenta, porque vives bajo parámetros y procesos burocráticos la mayor parte del tiempo, el entorno laboral te moldea por agotamiento. Asi que, si no eres capaz de ver eso y haces de tu vida y personalidad entono a ello entonces no estas viviendo como deberías. Deja la monotonía, la rutina y disfruta fuera de ello las cosas que te gustan, comparte momentos con tus más allegados, ya sea familia y/o amigos queridos, comparte tiempo contigo mismo.