no matter how much i love a man, sleep call bikin aku gelisah krn bikin hp panas & rasanya kayak berangkat tidur tp blm matiin sesuatu. di pikiranku ini kategorinya sama kayak lupa nutup pintu kulkas/matiin lampu teras/ngunci pintu krn hp masih “aktif”.
i hate how physical touch as a love language gets reduced to sex and kissing when it's more like... handholding, laying your head on their shoulder, putting your legs over their lap, tracing their palm, tucking your feet under their thighs. just touching for touching's sake.
"as a woman I have so much empathy for my mother, but as a daughter I have so much anger"
resonated deep to me karena memang hubungan ibu-anak perempuan memang kompleks sekali, rasa sayang, rasa marah, rasa ingin memperbaiki, rasa ingin pergi jauh.. tumpah ruah jadi satu
As someone yg udah pernah tinggal diluar and experienced Islamophobia firsthand, I think the phenomenon is very different outside Indonesia vs. here.
Diluar tuh Islamophobia usually tied to anti-Arab sentiment, immigration anxieties, and stereotypes linking Muslims to terrorism
In Indo however, a lot of what people call “Islamophobia” is actually frustration toward how religion is sometimes practiced socially and politically. Many people are reacting to forced collectivism, moral policing, or the expectation that everyone should conform to a particular interpretation of faith
Personally, I believe faith should be an individual choice. The problem starts when religion moves from guiding oneself to regulating everyone else.
@herndersone@asdxcn_ most of them “religious” tuh cuma karna takut masuk neraka, dari kecil doktrinnya cuma itu, bukan karna dari hati. and also, they’re only “good” krna mrk punya agama, bukan karna mereka actually a good human being esp too minority