dating an avoidant is insane because how the fuck does asking for basic love and effort become “putting pressure on them,” but expecting you to live with emotional neglect is somehow completely reasonable.
Ini bener ya. Both of you can be busy tapi relationship itu memang notabenernya demanding. Also, please value your partner, they deserve more than the very least of you. Kenapa kok tiap ketemu partner pas energi sudah habis, sudah capek, mau istirahat aja? is it really love?