i lost my baby a bit over a week ago. physically, spiritually and emotionally miscarriage is birth. but you are left with trauma, grief, emptiness and you can’t even hold your own child. your child’s soul is with you, even in early pregnancy, and you hold them in your heart forever. if you have held the life of another in your heart and womb, even only for a moment, then you are a mother. i have found peace knowing my baby was never touched by fear, pain or evil. my angel is in Heaven, held in perfect love until the day we meet again 🤍
The cultural consciousness would improve if we stopped saying "pregnant" and went back to saying "with child". We need to retrain the collective subconscious through discourse that it is actually a child, your child, not a clinical condition.