To kick off 2026, I want to offer a couple of helpful ideas that may serve as tools to navigate the loaded and emotionally charged times we are living in.
There are two patterns worth watching for, both in the culture and within ourselves: ideological reflex and the hive mind.
Ideological reflex is the habit of reacting before thinking. It is the automatic response that appears the moment a topic is introduced. The conclusion is already formed before the facts arrive. New information is not evaluated on its own merits but filtered through a preexisting script. Questions are treated as disloyalty, and complexity is dismissed as weakness. This reflex feels like conviction, but it often functions as protection, shielding a person from the discomfort of honest examination.
One of the clearest signs of ideological reflex is inconsistency. Moral language is used freely, but its meaning shifts depending on who is involved. The same behavior can be condemned in one moment and excused in the next. The standard does not change because the situation is meaningfully different, but because the players are. When moral ground moves this easily, it is not a foundation. It is shifting sand that cannot withstand even basic logical scrutiny.
The hive mind develops when these reflexes are reinforced by group belonging. Agreement becomes currency. Repetition replaces reasoning. People learn quickly which opinions earn affirmation and which invite suspicion or attack. Over time, the cost of independent thought becomes too high, so many choose silence or conformity instead. The group no longer asks what is true, but what keeps us united and protected.
In the hive mind, labels replace listening. People are reduced to categories so their ideas can be dismissed without engagement. Nuance is dangerous because it threatens the simplicity that holds the group together. This is why anyone who thinks aloud, asks uncomfortable questions, or refuses to repeat the approved language is often treated as a threat.
Both ideological reflex and the hive mind thrive on fear. Fear of being wrong. Fear of being isolated. Fear of losing status or belonging. But fear is a poor guide for truth, and it is an even poorer foundation for moral clarity.
It is also important to recognize that these patterns are not limited to individuals or social media. Ideological reflex and the hive mind can take root in institutions as well, including corporations, religious and academic institutions, news organizations, and journalism. When narratives become fixed, dissent is discouraged, and complexity is flattened, the goal quietly shifts from informing the public to reinforcing a preferred storyline. Paying attention to these signs matters, because when institutions stop questioning themselves, the public often stops being well served.
You can begin to notice these patterns by watching how quickly conclusions are reached. When a story produces instant certainty before facts are clear, ideological reflex is often at work.
Pay attention to selective outrage. If the same behavior is condemned in one case and excused in another without a consistent moral reason, standards may be shifting to protect allegiance rather than truth.
Notice how questions are treated. When curiosity is framed as danger and disagreement is labeled instead of engaged, the hive mind is likely present.
Watch for repetition without reasoning. When the same talking points appear everywhere with little depth or explanation, alignment may be valued more than understanding.
Naming these patterns is not about standing above the crowd, but to stand honestly within it, able to examine our own assumptions, test our own words, and remain grounded when the pressure to conform grows strong.
In times like these, clarity is a discipline. Integrity requires effort. And peace is preserved not by winning arguments, but by refusing to surrender thoughtful reflection to reflex or our conscience to the crowd.
The Problem of Overcorrection
The problem of overcorrection has been on my mind and intensified in the last couple of days.
In ministry and in citizenship, I see how often radicalism doesn’t begin with ideas themselves, but with the reactive overcorrection against ideas. Bad ideas exist, of course, but the overreaction to them often produces more bad ideas. Overcorrection is like swerving too hard to avoid one ditch, only to land in another.
Disagreement is not evil. Even when political convictions run deep, to disagree is not the same as to hate. And yet, I know if I voiced some of my own mixed beliefs—leaning left on some issues, right on others—I would likely be labeled and attacked. That’s the culture we live in. People are more eager to find enemies than neighbors, because enemies justify their activism and, at times, give them a place to pour their unresolved pain and struggles.
The truth is, not one person or party owns all the good ideas or all the bad ones. That should be obvious, but it's amazing how quickly we forget it. If you look back at history, you will see that political parties have shifted positions, traded platforms, and even reversed themselves on major issues. Causes that once belonged to one side are now claimed by the other. Ideas dismissed in one generation are championed in the next.
For example, in the mid-1800s, it was the Democratic Party that defended slavery and its expansion, while the newly formed Republican Party under Abraham Lincoln opposed it. A century later, those roles had shifted: Democratic leaders like Lyndon B. Johnson signed the Civil Rights and Voting Rights Acts, while many Republicans resisted. Today, both parties claim the mantle of freedom and civil rights in different ways.
The same is true with immigration. In 1986, Ronald Reagan signed legislation granting amnesty to nearly three million undocumented immigrants—something many in his party would reject today. Meanwhile, Democrats who once pushed stricter border measures now position themselves as defenders of more open immigration policies.
These examples remind us: political movements evolve, sometimes in ways that contradict their own past. What was considered “conservative” or “progressive” in one era may look entirely different in another. Politics are not eternal truths; they are human constructions: fluid, shifting, adapting to culture, fear, and opportunity.
And yet, people cling to their political identity as if it were eternal dogma, as if loyalty to a party were loyalty to truth itself. That is dangerous, because when we absolutize our politics we close ourselves off to wisdom, nuance, and correction. We end up defending platforms our grandparents may have opposed and condemning positions they may have faithfully held.
No human movement holds absolute truth. Parties change, leaders change, ideas change. What doesn’t change is our calling to treat one another with dignity and to measure our convictions not by party lines but by faith, conscience, and wisdom.
When we forget this, we confuse loyalty to Christ with loyalty to a party. And when that happens we risk baptizing political dogma as if it were eternal truth. That's dangerous for our faith and for our society. The gospel is not partisan. Whenever we make it so, we diminish its power to call all people to repentance, justice, mercy, and love.
I believe in evil, yes, and I know there are truly evil acts and intentions. But the majority of people who cause harm do so out of ignorance, confusion, or simple mistakes—not malice. When we treat every opponent as an enemy, we almost force them to respond in kind. That's how radicalism multiplies: not just from bad ideas, but from overcorrection.
The spiritual call for me is to resist that reflex, to practice humility and discernment. Not to pretend differences don’t matter but to remember they don’t make us enemies. That’s where faith meets the public square. That's where we can show the world a better way.
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Second message of the series "Love Letters From God." Yesterday's theme, "When You Are Sad."
Here is the letter (follow link for full message),
My Dear Child,
I see you. I see the heaviness in your heart, the tears you try to hold back, and the moments when sadness feels like too much to carry. I know the pain you don’t always share, the sorrow that lingers even when you try to move forward. You may feel like no one truly understands, like you are all alone in what you are going through. But hear me now, my child—I am with you. I have never left you, not for a moment.
Come to me. Bring your sadness, your weariness, and even the questions that don’t have answers. You don’t have to pretend to be okay with me. You don’t have to be strong. Just come. Let me hold you. Let me be the safe place where you can lay down your burdens and simply rest.
I know sadness because I have felt it, too. When my Son, Jesus, walked this earth, he cried real tears. He stood at the grave of his friend Lazarus and wept. He carried the weight of a broken world on his shoulders. He understands every bit of what you are feeling right now. That means when you cry, you don’t cry alone. When your heart aches, I am aching with you.
You don’t have to figure everything out today. You don’t have to force yourself to smile or rush to be “better.” Just lean into me. Let me carry what you can’t. Let me remind you that this sadness will not last forever. There will be joy again—I promise. But until that day comes, I will sit with you in the sadness. I will be your comfort, your peace, your strength when you have none left.
So come, my beloved. Let yourself rest in my love. Let me hold you close. I am here, and I will never let you go.
Always with you,
Your Heavenly Father
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Two weeks ago, I began our new sermon series, "Love Letters from God." This first message is a letter from God to those who feel broken. If you need a reminder of God’s love and comfort, click the link to read the full message.
Here is the first letter,
"My Beloved Child,
I see you. I see the weight you carry, the tears you have shed in the silence of the night, the ache in your heart that words cannot express. I know your pain, and I want you to know that you are not alone.
I am near. Closer than your breath, nearer than your deepest sorrow. When your heart is shattered, I do not stand at a distance—I come close, wrapping you in my presence. You may not always feel me, but I am here, whispering my love into the depths of your soul.
The world may have let you down. People may have left, dreams may have crumbled, and hope may seem like a distant memory. But my love for you has not wavered. I am still holding you, still working in your life, even in the moments when all seems lost.
Come to me with your pain. Let me carry what is too heavy for you. Let me bind up your wounds and restore your weary soul. I will not rush you. Healing takes time, and I will walk with you through every moment, giving you strength when you feel weak, peace when your heart is restless, and love when you feel unworthy.
You are not forgotten. You are not forsaken. You are mine, and nothing—not sorrow, not loss, not despair—can separate you from my love.
Hold on, my beloved. A new day will come. Your pain will not last forever. I am writing a story of redemption and renewal in your life. Trust me. I will make beauty from these ashes.
Always with you,
Your Heavenly Father"
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This month is Discipleship month at church. Here is the first message of the series,
"In today’s culture, identity is a central focus—defining who we are and how others perceive us. We are constantly encouraged to “find ourselves” or “live our truth.” While this pursuit can foster self-expression, the challenge is that identity is often shaped by shifting feelings rather than enduring truth... Basing our identity on emotions can lead to instability and confusion. Over time, we accumulate both encouraging and painful labels. Words like “worthy” and “capable” sit alongside harsh ones like “failure,” “ugly,” or “not enough.”
As Christians, this becomes especially evident when guilt, shame, or fear take hold. These emotions can distort how we see ourselves, leading us to believe lies—that we are too broken for God’s grace, that our failures define us, or that we must somehow earn God’s love. One day, we may feel confident and loved; the next, we feel inadequate and unworthy. This back-and-forth creates a fragile and inconsistent sense of self."
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Today's sermon,
"Our challenge, therefore, is that we often confuse our faith with our political beliefs. It is easy to think our political stance reflects Christian values, but we must remember that our convictions are not the only way to express God’s will. Jesus didn’t fit into any political category of his time; instead, he showed us a kingdom-minded approach that rises above earthly politics."
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As a father of a 13-year-old young man (and a nine-year-old boy) , there are several essential lessons I am intentionally instilling in him:
Being smart is both good and expected. Intelligence is a gift that should be nurtured. Continue to challenge your mind, be curious, and seek knowledge daily. It is not only about excelling in academics but also about thinking critically and making wise decisions in life.
Being strong and healthy is important and normal. Physical health is foundational to overall well-being. Make it a priority to exercise regularly, lift weights, run, and eat nourishing foods. A strong body helps create a strong mind, and this discipline will carry over into other areas of life.
Being kind is essential and powerful. True strength lies in compassion. Always be considerate of others' feelings, show empathy, and offer help when it is needed. Kindness can transform relationships and situations, and it costs nothing.
Being honest is the basis of integrity. Honesty builds trust, and trust is essential for meaningful relationships. Be truthful, honorable, and respectable, even when it is difficult or uncomfortable. Always let your word be your bond.
Being brave means doing what is right, even when it is hard. Courage isn’t the absence of fear but the will to do what’s right despite it. Stand up for your beliefs, protect those who are vulnerable, and don’t back down when confronted with injustice.
Being a gentleman is about dignity and respect. Treat everyone, especially women, with dignity, respect, and kindness. A true gentleman is considerate, mindful, and acts with integrity in all relationships.
Faith is your foundation. As a disciple of Jesus, your life should reflect his love and good character. Stay grounded in your faith, letting his teachings shape your thoughts, actions, and decisions. Love others as Christ loves you, and be a beacon of his grace and truth in the world.
These lessons are especially crucial during adolescence, a time of rapid change and self-discovery. As young men go through puberty and begin shaping their character, it is essential they internalize these values, which will guide them throughout their lives.
What other values do you think are important to add?
Life is precious and finite; it can end at any moment, not because it is measured but because it is fragile. Live your life as if it were your second chance—love those around you and make the most of every moment.
Last Sunday's message,
"Here, Jesus calls us to love God with all our heart, soul, and mind, to love our neighbors as ourselves, and to go into the world making disciples, teaching them to obey everything he has commanded us. These aren’t just good ideas; they are the very essence of what it means to be an awesome church. To God, something is only awesome if it is good. And goodness, as Jesus defines it, is always motivated by love and by how it contributes to the wellness of others."
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Last Sunday's message,
"Here, Jesus calls us to love God with all our heart, soul, and mind, to love our neighbors as ourselves, and to go into the world making disciples, teaching them to obey everything he has commanded us. These aren’t just good ideas; they are the very essence of what it means to be an awesome church. To God, something is only awesome if it is good. And goodness, as Jesus defines it, is always motivated by love and by how it contributes to the wellness of others."
https://t.co/1mNpTZgpKe
Last Sunday's message,
"[T]his digging deep isn’t easy. It requires discipline, perseverance, and a willingness to face challenges head-on. It means making tough decisions and sometimes going against the grain of what the world considers normal or acceptable. It involves being honest about our behaviors and shortcomings and actively aligning our lives with God’s will. It is about more than just avoiding obvious sins; it is about cultivating a character that reflects the heart of Jesus in every situation and with everyone we meet."
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Yesterday's mesaage and third of the series "Aim up!"
"One of the most dangerous misconceptions in our spiritual lives is the idea that grace somehow frees us from the responsibility of living according to God’s commandments. How often do we hear, or even say ourselves, “I’m not under the law but under grace!”—as if those seven words are a shield to excuse behavior that doesn’t align with the teachings of Christ. When confronted about our actions, we might get defensive, insisting, “Don’t judge me; you know what the Bible says about judging.”
But let’s pause and ask: Is that really the purpose of grace? Does grace give us an eternal “get out of jail free” card that allows us to avoid taking responsibility for our actions? Or is there something much deeper at play?"
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