i am begging some of you to become ok with hearing not-so-great-things about yourself. especially if it is coming from a loved one that historically respects your agency. chances are you unknowingly crossed a boundary & someone is trying to tell you in a respectful way.
So many women are out here living absolutely MISERABLE lives with their boyfriends and husbands, meanwhile single women are sleeping in peace, glowing like the sun, and minding their business.
Y'all kept telling us "find a man," but half of these men can't even manage their own emotions, lust, finances, hygiene, or loyalty. Being single isn't a curse... it's the luxury package.
The scheming, deception and toiling of women’s feelings just to “crack” them is quite literally RAPE CULTURE. If you have to do all these just to get laid instead of just being upfront says alot about how you view sex. You’re insane
When I replay conversations that could’ve been an easy fix, I remind that “my person” would never be difficult on purpose and would never go out of their way to go against me. Love is not difficult, it’s understanding and patient.