and this isn't to say you can't be in a healthy relationship and complain about people or need space from them. it's so nuanced! but kenna and i truly have never really fought and are so aligned in almost everything that it's so, so smooth. again, we're very lucky.
i read a lot of horror stories on reddit where people are just in trash relationships, and it always makes me feel so secure with kenna. i've never doubted, i've never complained about her or needed space from her. i can't imagine my life without her. i'm so dang lucky.
3 years ago today kenna and i "met up" for what we realized was our first date (gotta love sapphic uncertainty). all these years and memories later, we've built such a rich and full life together! hard to remember what life was like without her. i'm just so grateful ♥️
everyone is struggling right now with a lot of unfortunate circumstances, and somehow the only thing keeping us feel alive is hobbies and daily ordinary things that make us smile. so please never lose your interests over something, no matter how "small" it is🥺
pool's open for the summer!! pump started and cover off yesterday. needs to circulate some chemicals over the next few days. lot of work and a few unresolved issues, but doing my best ✨
we took the GAD-7 test and kenna scored 4 (no anxiety disorder) and i scored 15 (severe anxiety disorder) 😅💀
i really do struggle every single day. i'm working hard to overcome it & can't say enough how thankful i am for a loving and patient partner who never gives up on me!