Being suicidal is horrible because you can end up feeling like the only reason you’re still alive is for other people, not because you actually want to live for yourself.
The trauma of abandonment is so cruel because no matter how much I'm with someone amazing, even a beautiful friendship, I can only keep thinking that they're going to get tired of me at any moment, it's like I have to live on alert all the time and can't enjoy anything properly
“you’re so distant” you literally made me feel like I wasn’t important to you. I didn’t become distant for no reason; I just stopped forcing closeness where I no longer felt valued.
to be loved is to be considered. to be considered is to be seen before you have to explain yourself. it is to exist in someone’s decisions even when you are not in the room. always love people on purpose!!!! love is intentional!!! and you consider them because you love them!!!!
I saw someone say, “I struggle with my mental health,” and someone replied, “You don’t look like it.” She said, “Yeah, I’m fucked in the head, not the face.” 😭😂 I’m sorry, but that comeback was PERFECT. 👏🏽👏🏽😂
I don’t think people understand how hard it is when your toxic traits are isolation and avoidance but your love languages are quality time and physical touch.