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ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴍɪɴᴅ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ᴇʟᴇᴍᴇɴᴛ ᴏꜰ ᴅᴇsᴛʀᴜᴄᴛɪᴏɴ; ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴀᴄǫᴜᴀɪɴᴛᴀɴᴄᴇs ᴀʀᴇ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴀᴛᴀʟʏsᴛ † ɪ ʙᴇʟɪᴇᴠᴇ ɪɴ ɢᴏᴅ

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ʜᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴍᴇ ᴛɪᴍᴇ

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Sharapov ~ Heartbeat (Original Mix) #SoundCloud
https://t.co/JaVTtc1wuP

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When life throws you lemons

Try a Lime 😆

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Hearts Connected (Original Mix) by Cathy Burton & Omnia #SoundCloud
https://t.co/N0gJd4URYZ

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Shining a Light on the Shite

Malicious intent to create a scapegoat, is deep emotional insecurity, ego protection, and a need for control
They lack the ability to deal with their own failures and project them onto an innocent target
These people ascribe their own negativite character, failures, and unacceptable impulses onto another person

They redirect their anger & frustration from the actual source as they're unwilling to accept the person they truly are, confronting the real source might cause rejection or loss
Admitting the real cause damages their self image, shame

They use other people as a shield against shame forcing someone else to take the fall, the individual protects their fragile ego and avoids the painful truth that they make mistakes

Guilt, the fault finder twists the truth
This defense mechanism stops them from facing their own guilt

They force a group to bond with them by manufacturing a shared enemy, building false loyalty to distract from their own toxic behaviour
They blow small issues out of proportion

Recognising that the blame reflects the aggressor's insecurities is the first step, separating your identity from the false narrative, identify that you are being unfairly assigned blame to deflect from systemic & individual dysfunction
The criticism is a projection of others' emotional instability, not objective truth
Shut down all access to you, even when group members accept they are wrong and wish for forgiveness, if they can do it once they can do it again

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ᴡʜᴇɴ ʏᴏᴜ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ʏᴏᴜ ᴋɴᴏᴡ

sᴀʟᴛ ᴏꜰ ᴛʜᴇ ᴇᴀʀᴛʜ💧sᴘɪʀɪᴛᴜᴀʟɪᴛʏ

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Through The Smoke by Akille & Juna Rose on #SoundCloud
https://t.co/LlUdzQilJT

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ᴀɴ ɪɴᴛᴇʀᴇsᴛɪɴɢ ᴄᴏɴᴠᴇʀsᴀᴛɪᴏɴ ᴡɪᴛʜ sᴏᴍᴇᴏɴᴇ ᴡʜᴏ's ᴋɴᴏᴡɴ ᴍᴇ ꜰᴏʀ ʏᴇᴀʀs ɴ ᴋɴᴏᴡs ᴍᴇ ᴡᴇʟʟ

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²⁵ ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴇ ᴅɪꜰꜰᴇʀᴇɴᴄᴇ ʙᴇᴛᴡᴇᴇɴ ᴛᴡᴏ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴡʜᴏ ᴀʀᴇ ɪɴ ʀᴏᴍᴀɴᴛɪᴄ sᴇxᴜᴀʟ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴsʜɪᴘ ɪs ᴀʟʀɪɢʜᴛ, ʏᴇᴀʜ ??

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𝙲𝙾𝙽𝚂𝙿𝙸𝚁𝙰𝙲𝚈

𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚖𝚞𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚊𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚘𝚛 𝚞𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚋𝚎𝚝𝚠𝚎𝚎𝚗 𝚖𝚒𝚗𝚍𝚜. 𝙼𝚎𝚛𝚎 𝚌𝚊𝚜𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚍𝚒𝚜𝚌𝚞𝚜𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗 𝚘𝚛 𝚏𝚕𝚘𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊 𝚜𝚞𝚐𝚐𝚎𝚜𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 𝚒𝚜 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚎𝚗𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑; 𝚒𝚝 𝚖𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝚐𝚘 𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚝 𝚝𝚊𝚕𝚔 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚘 𝚊 𝚏𝚒𝚛𝚖 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚖𝚒𝚝𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝

𝚃𝚑𝚎 𝚌𝚛𝚒𝚖𝚎 𝚒𝚜 𝚏𝚞𝚕𝚕𝚢 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚙𝚕𝚎𝚝𝚎 𝚞𝚙𝚘𝚗 𝚊𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝

𝚊 𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚜𝚘𝚗 𝚒𝚜 𝚕𝚎𝚐𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚢 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚙𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚋𝚕𝚎 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚓𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚒𝚛 𝚘𝚠𝚗 𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚜𝚘𝚗𝚊𝚕 𝚊𝚌𝚝𝚜, 𝚋𝚞𝚝 𝚊𝚕𝚜𝚘 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚊𝚌𝚝𝚜 𝚍𝚘𝚗𝚎 𝚋𝚢 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚒𝚛 𝚌𝚘-𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚘𝚛𝚜 𝚒𝚗 𝚏𝚞𝚛𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚖𝚘𝚗 𝚍𝚎𝚜𝚒𝚐𝚗

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ᴀʟʟ ʏᴏᴜʀ ʟɪᴇs ᴇᴠᴇɴᴛᴜᴀʟʟʏ ᴄᴀᴛᴄʜ ᴜᴘ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ ~ ᴄʟᴇᴀɴ

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As We Fly (Original Mix) by Pete Bellis & Tommy #SoundCloud
https://t.co/E0gS9mGRnu

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ɪɴsɪᴅɪᴏᴜs ɪɴᴄᴇsᴛ • ʙʟᴏᴏᴅ ᴏɴ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ʜᴀɴᴅs

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https://t.co/d9cd6KosPx

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ᴡʜᴇɴ ɪ'ᴍ ʀɪɢʜᴛ ɴ ʏᴏᴜ'ʀᴇ ᴡʀᴏɴɢ; sᴜᴄᴋ ɪᴛ ᴜᴘ ʙɪᴛᴄʜ

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🧐

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Iron Sky by Paolo Nutini #SoundCloud
https://t.co/vjgeIedaLa

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Gio Mee ~ Take A Chance #SoundCloud
https://t.co/6VinYVjxXA