If there is something specific that you want, you need to find the person that has what you want that has the mindset to get what you want and surround yourself with those people. 
Most people won’t get ahead in life because they tell themselves they need a break on the weekend. They won’t do the hard work the stuff they don’t wanna do so I challenge you to pick one thing that you don’t wanna do that you’ve been putting off and fucking do it today.
 Here’s a Saturday afternoon thought, if you can’t control yourself if you can’t lead yourself how in the fuck do you think you could ever lead anyone else?
We have been taught from an early age that winning is doing whatever we want whenever we want eating whatever we want whenever we want. Winning is not doing those things. Winning is doing the hard things first. To become the person we needed most in our life.