Porn taught you sex was recreation.
The clinic is where you pay for that lie.
I'm 44. Got married at 21. Had our first kid nine months later because we knew what we were doing.
Five kids total. My wife was pregnant for 8 years of our marriage. We hit the food bank so many times the lady started calling us by name. Pawned my tools twice. Drove a van with no AC in Montana summers and no heat that actually worked in the winters.
We chose that.
On purpose.
Here's what nobody wants to say:
Abortion doesn't start at the clinic.
It starts in a bedroom with a guy who learned about sex from a screen. Who thinks it's entertainment. Stress relief. Something you do because you're bored and she said yes.
Nobody told him his body was designed to make people. Not sometimes. Not accidentally. That's the whole point of the equipment.
The baby isn't the accident.
His orgasm was.
I found my dad's magazines when I was 12. Thought I understood women by 16.
I understood nothing. I understood pixels and fantasy and a version of sex that doesn't exist anywhere outside a camera setup in the San Fernando Valley.
I got lucky. Married a woman who wanted children more than she wanted comfort. We both did.
But most guys? They got the same magazines. The same screens. The same lie.
And now they're standing in clinic parking lots wondering how recreation made a person.
Every abortion has a man attached to it.
A man who said "I'm not ready" like readiness is a feeling and not a decision.
A man who disappeared. Literally. Or just went quiet and let her do the math alone.
A man who wanted the pleasure but not the weight.
Pro-life starts with your zipper. With teaching your sons that sex makes people and that's not a bug in the system — that's the system.
My oldest son is 21. Got married at 20.
His wife went into labor at 24 weeks.
Blake came out at 1 lb 15 oz. Died twice on the table. Came back twice.
Six months old now. Still on oxygen. Still smaller than the other babies.
Still here.
I look at him and I think about all the math that didn't get done. All the choices that got made before he existed that meant he would exist.
My wife and I chose poverty at 21.
My son and his wife chose to fight at 24 weeks.
Blake chose to keep breathing.
Choices all the way down. Not accidents.
Porn taught an entire generation that sex is content. Entertainment. Something you consume.
Then they're shocked when consumption creates a person.
You want to be pro-life?
Kill the lie first.
Sex isn't recreation. It's creation.
Your body knows this even if your browser history doesn't.
@lawrence_bury Not embarrassing he wanted to stay.If they are willing to go for Vini Arsenal can go for any of the top world class players that's what scares rivals fans now....
BREAKING: The Egyptian FA have released a statement claiming they "cannot remain silent regarding the referee decisions" following their defeat to Argentina in the World Cup 🚨
🚨 Arsenal Legend Ian Wright on the Spence–Partey Handshake Incident:
🗣️ “I know a lot of people will disagree with me on this, but I wasn’t comfortable with what happened. Thomas Partey was there representing Ghana, standing in that line as a professional footballer, and I think he deserved the same basic respect that every other player received.
A handshake isn’t an endorsement of someone’s character, it isn’t a verdict, and it certainly isn’t a statement about legal matters. It’s simply a gesture of professionalism before a football match.
What worries me is how quickly people today are willing to make up their minds before processes have run their course. We all have opinions, and everyone is entitled to them, but there is a reason due process exists.
You cannot build a fair society on assumptions. If we start treating accusations as convictions, then we’re moving away from the principles of fairness that we expect in every other walk of life.
Djed Spence has every right to make his own decision, and nobody should force him to do something he doesn’t want to do. But if you’re asking for my view, I would have shaken Thomas Partey’s hand and then focused on the football. That’s what I would expect from any professional player. The game itself should always come first.
I’ve seen people praising the gesture as if it was some great act of courage, and others condemning it completely. For me, the bigger point is that respect has to be applied consistently. You can’t demand fairness for some people and then deny it to others.
Whether you like Thomas Partey or not, whether you support Ghana or not, the principle remains the same: every person deserves to be treated fairly until the facts are established.
Football is becoming too quick to judge and too slow to wait for the truth. That’s not a road I want the game to go down. My belief has always been simple: respect people, let the proper authorities do their work, and don’t turn a football pitch into a courtroom.”
Now even Christians are encouraging and recommending everyone to go and watch Polygamist.
I won't lie—I tried to watch it after seeing so many people talking about it on TikTok and other social media platforms. I struggled to move past two minutes, and the reason was simple: the sexual scenes.
One thing many believers fail to understand is that you cannot be praying against lust, pornography, masturbation, and sexual addiction while feeding your mind with content that awakens the very desires you are asking God to help you overcome.
Some people are wondering why they keep falling into temptation. The answer is simple: what you entertain eventually influences you.
If you are trying to stop masturbating and watching pornography, but your daily entertainment is filled with sexual scenes, nudity, adultery, and immorality, your battle will become much harder.
As Christians, we must learn to guard our hearts and our eyes.
The Bible says:
"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."
What enters your eyes eventually enters your mind, and what enters your mind eventually affects your actions.
What surprises me is seeing some Christian women judging all men based on a movie.
A movie is not reality.
Not every man is a polygamist.
Not every husband is a cheat.
Not every marriage is destined to fail.
Not every man is secretly living a double life.
As the world is talking about Polygamist, can we also talk about Monogamist?
Can we talk about the thousands of faithful husbands who wake up every morning and choose their wives?
Can we talk about men who have opportunities to cheat but refuse because they honor God and respect their marriage vows?
Can we talk about men who stay committed through financial struggles, sickness, misunderstandings, and difficult seasons?
Can we talk about men who are raising their children, providing for their families, and remaining faithful when nobody is applauding them?
Because they exist.
It is possible for a man to be married to one woman.
It is possible for a man not to commit adultery.
It is possible for a man to reject a woman who is trying to seduce him.
It is possible for a man to remain loyal even when temptation is available.
It is possible for a man to honor his vows until death.
The problem with our generation is that movies, social media, and celebrity culture have become our teachers.
People are forming opinions about marriage from Netflix instead of Scripture.
People are learning relationships from movies instead of God's Word.
People are allowing entertainment to define what they believe about men, women, marriage, and family.
As believers, our standard is not movies.
Our standard is not TikTok.
Our standard is not trends.
Our standard is not celebrity opinions.
Our standard is the Word of God.
The Bible is our blueprint for marriage.
The Bible teaches faithfulness.
The Bible teaches commitment.
The Bible teaches self-control.
The Bible teaches covenant.
The Bible teaches that marriage is honorable and should be protected.
Before I watch any movie, I ask myself one question:
"What is the end result of this?"
Will it build my faith?
Will it strengthen my values?
Will it bring me closer to God?
Will it help me become a better husband, wife, father, mother, or believer?
Not everything that is popular is profitable.
Not everything that is trending is beneficial.
And not everything that everyone is watching should be watched by a child of God.
Let's be careful what we consume.
Let's stop allowing movies to become our theology.
Let's stop judging an entire gender because of a script written for entertainment.
And let's remember that while the world may celebrate confusion, God's design for marriage has not changed.
The Bible remains our standard.
#mybodyisatemple #HolySpirit
This image confronts us with two of the greatest scandals of Christianity.
The first scandal is that none of us are good enough for heaven.
Most people compare themselves to serial killers, dictators, rapists, and criminals and conclude, "At least I'm not that bad." But God does not compare us to Jeffrey Dahmer. He compares us to His own perfect holiness. Scripture says that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. The proud businessman, the moral neighbor, the avid atheist, the faithful churchgoer, and the murderer all stand guilty before a holy God apart from Christ.
The second scandal is that God saves anyone at all.
The real question is not, "How could God save someone like Dahmer if he truly repented and believed?" The real question is, "How could God save any of us?" Every person deserves judgment. Every person deserves separation from God. Salvation is never owed. It is never earned. It is pure grace from beginning to end.
That is what makes the gospel so offensive to human pride. It tells the worst sinner that he can be forgiven through Christ, and it tells the best-looking sinner that he cannot save himself.
The cross levels everyone. We are all condemned in Adam, and the only hope for any of us is Jesus Christ.