Alhumdulilah! Series victory for 🇵🇰 👏🏼 Great performance from our batsmen @ImAbd28, @SalmanAliAgha1, @Shani_offical@saudshak and our bowlers. The goal is to carry this momentum forward and play with a positive approach. Saarey fans ka shukriya keep supporting 🫶🏼🇵🇰
#IamGAME
@NJLahori G ap bHt pyari lG rai hain , or apki story humy ye seekhati hy k apny ap kO accept kRO Jese ap hO , or yh baat humy positivity ki trf ly k jati hY 🌸😇 or humy strong bnati hy, zindagi ma halat Jese b hOn Allah ka shukr Ada krty hOwe humy khush rehna chahiye ✨
I know many of you struggle with grief. So do I sometimes. So, I want to share a story that became a game changer for me. It is now one of the most important stories I have ever heard. It is about grief.
A friend shared this with me when i was sobbing on Abus quls:
A Saudi woman lost her son & a Pakistani woman came to do afsos. The Pakistani was screaming and crying for the Saudi woman to have patience to bear the loss.
The Saudi mother looked at the Pakistani woman and after a while of listening to her screaming, quietly asked her to give her the gold bangle she was wearing.
The Pakistani woman looked surprised. But she took of her bangle and handed it to the mourning mother, who wore it.
After a while the Saudi mother asked the Pakistani woman to ask her to return the gold bangle.
So the bemused Pakistani woman asked for her bangle to be returned.
And the Saudi mother took the gold bangle off her wrist and returned it to the Pakistani woman. Then she said gently,
“THIS is what just happened to me. Now I could have cried returning your bangle, I could have felt bad, thought I don’t want to let it go, it looks so good on my wrist. I want to keep it forever. OR I could say THANK YOU for trusting me so quickly and giving me your beautiful bangle, without a question.
Allah gave me my beautiful Angel for 15 years. Now it’s time for me to thank Allah for trusting me with such a precious gift for 15 years. For me to thank Allah for the beautiful memories of love. As my boy belonged to Allah, & has returned home. I am overwhelmed by gratitude. I am blessed. I feel the loss, but I know I will transition and be with him again some day. So please don’t scream and cry for me.”
I was stunned.
Allah gave me my Abu for 50 years.
I work with children who have never seen their fathers or whose fathers have abandoned them. They have no loving memories, no beautiful stories to share about their Baba.
I too, am blessed, I too am overwhelmed with gratitude.
Yes sometimes I find myself craving for his voice, his physical presence, his smell, his laughter. But that is quickly taken over by a feeling of great gratitude. It’s taken over by amazing stories and memories. I smile. I am happy. At peace. Alhamdolillah
I send Baba my love and pray for him, 2 extra nafals in every prayer.
I do service in his name and most of all I thank Baba, for being my guardian Angel and making sure I don’t miss a prayer, and am punctual about my salat.
I thank Allah for keeping Baba alive in my heart, my head and letting him nudge me to be so diligent about my salat.
Sadness is there but so is joy and gratitude.
Har mushkil ke saath aasani.
I CHOOSE to focus on the asaani
Every time.
Allah reham karay, hum sub ko azmaishoN se door rakhay. Apne Rehem aur shafqat kay noor se humko guide karay.
I hope this post facilitates your healing.
Love and duas always. Your Nado
@mindfulmaven_ 6 things to keep as secret:
1.Don't share your plan with anyone.
2.Don't talk about the intimate details of your lifestyle.
3.Never talk about how herotic you are.
4.Never declare how enlighted you are.
5.Never talk about family problems.
6.Don't bring unpleasant thing u've heard