maturing is realizing you cannot get mad at your partner for expressing what upsets them.. even if it isn’t deep to you, it may be serious matter to them. genuine consideration is the key
Heavy on.... I’m not even mad at you.
That’s just who you are; that’s your character. You’ll never change, and that’s on you.
Be that, live that, do that, but without me; I just won’t ever deal with it again
One thing about me... MY MISERY DOES NOT LIKE COMPANY. If I know I'm in a shitty mood, l isolate. I'm not with pushing my energy on nobody else if it ain't the right energy.
nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. the rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. the absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. it comes in waves. sometimes you’ll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you.
Ngl the healer also needs healing. The planner also needs surprises. The giver also needs to receive. The thoughtful also needs to be thought of. The considerate also needs to be considered.