I heard a girl saying "If she has to ask for flowers she doesn't want them anymore" but that really goes for everything wether it be love, attention or appreciation, bc it's no longer coming from you it's coming from me. Every woman's love language is not having to ask for !!
a woman's brain cannot relax until she feels physically & emotionally safe. many men don't understand how much energy women expend checking whether they're safe. providing an environment where she can turn off that part of her brain allows her to truly settle into her femininity
i don’t regret loving anyone because i firmly believe that love is never wasted but many people did not deserve me. all i can do now is thank them for the discernment i built through them. loving the wrong people brought me into more love for myself.