@KamuKamuTiger@HugoTheWaffle@aulineboards tbh i understand them needing help. but why would you stay around someone sucking the energy out of you for attention? why does this persons feelings matter less than theirs?
@johnyrockfort@GarethElton@smartfoid@kobilab12@magikwand me and my partner are fine with reposting fan edits of an actor/actress because they are attractive. i’ve even met actors i’ve reposted but not ever thought about going further. that’s the point. a trust and security thing.
@johnyrockfort@GarethElton@smartfoid@kobilab12@magikwand if that’s what makes you secure in your relationship sure. but if you can’t handle that your partner doesn’t think the rest of the world is ugly just because you exist that is solely a you problem.
@johnyrockfort@GarethElton@smartfoid@kobilab12@magikwand well, as i am a girlfriend and from personal experience no? i can’t speak for everyone which is why im saying this comes down to personal boundarie. so yes if op didnt like it they coulda just set the boundary like normal instead of thinking everyone cares.
@johnyrockfort@GarethElton@smartfoid@kobilab12@magikwand that’s not a celebrity? finding someone who is meant to be attractive to the general population attractive over a screen that you will never see is entirely different.
@smartfoid@GarethElton@kobilab12@magikwand exactly. i’ve been saying it has to do with your own security. sure some people don’t want people to say it but most people don’t usually care for that stuff is my point. like yes that is ops on insecurity
@smartfoid@GarethElton@kobilab12@magikwand it is normal to verbally say someone is attractive. it’s an insecurity problem if you have to have your partner lie and say they never find someone else attractive.
@Cnumian_124@smartfoid@kobilab12@magikwand i did. it is literally the first few words. again if you are too insecure to have your partner say it that is a personal preference not weird in general.
@smartfoid@kobilab12@magikwand 😭😭they said finding anyone hot AND announcing it. you can find people hot outside your relationship. announcing it is also a personal boundary so not weird to the general public yet again?