I think in romantic relationships it’s important to know when to show up as a romantic partner on some days and then when to just show up as a friend or maybe it’s just me
nonsexual dominance is so attractive. having someone choose for you? placing a hand on your back? pulling you closer in crowded areas? fixing your hair when you didn't know it was messy? holding your hand to guide you through crowds? telling you when you should eat or go to bed? top tier
“He has childhood trauma.” So do I.
“He’s under a lot of pressure at work.” So am I.
“He’s just overwhelmed.” Me too.
The only difference is that we excuse men’s behavior, and shame women for not carrying it.
Dark-skinned women deserve safety.
Dark-skinned women deserve freedom.
Dark-skinned women deserve protection.
Dark-skinned women deserve belief.
Dark-skinned women deserve care.
Dark-skinned women deserve justice.
Dark-skinned women deserve to live.
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You can tell a lot about a person by what they do after hurting you. Some apologize. Some reflect. Some change. And some will rewrite the entire story in their head just to avoid feeling guilty. Accountability is rare because protecting the ego is easier than becoming better.
honestly don’t know who needs to hear this but you’re way better off single with high standards than accepting the bare minimum from a boy who doesn’t know what he wants.
i want romance. i want intimacy. i want the 3am love making. i want consistency. i want loyalty. i want the random looks of admiration. i want to know you’re just for me. i want date nights and flowers. i want love that’s pure and true