Yk what's attractive?? A secure man with no sneaky stuff, no extra females, no inconsistency, no drama, A man who is expressive about his feelings for you, gentle with you, makes you feel safe, a man who still has same level of respect and love during bad terms!! Top tier
sex is only fun if the other person is extremely attracted to you and outwardly expresses it the whole time. anything less than that is like.... why are we here