being a mom is wanting to stay at home alone so she can get shit done and have all the time to herself but also missing her child so much after a few hours ๐คง
Trauma makes you think your self-worth depends on how others treat you. Healing makes you realize you are not how they treat you, they are how they treat you, and you didn't lose them because of your boundaries, they lost you because of their repeated disrespect.
i didn't have a lot of physical accomplishments this year.
but i think one of my greatest accomplishments is that i learned to be there for myself. i learned to comfort myself in times i'm hurting. i learned how to start healing my inner child. +