A wife cannot publicly shame her husband for cheating on her, & she would attract sympathy.
But if she tells the public that she's the one feeding him & paying the bills, she has successfully shamed him.
A man cannot publicly shame his wife for not providing for the familynor paying the bills, & he would attract sympathy.
But if he tells the public that she has been an unfaithful wife with evidences, he has successfully shamed her and ruined her.
Provision is a man's shield.
Fidelity is a woman's shield.
End.
“When you are in your 20s, you don’t really care what people think about you. In your 30s and 40s, you start worrying about what others think. But when you get to 60 and above, you realize people were never really thinking about you in the first place. The young look forward, the elderly look back, and those in between are often stressed and confused. By the time you become wise enough to be careful with your steps, you are already too old to move freely. So, do what you need to do now.”
– Veteran actor Vitalis Ndubuisi