Deceiving a girl into thinking you genuinely care about her just to sleep with her isn't just manipulative,it’s a serious violation of trust and consent. It’s time we start acknowledging how harmful that behavior really is, even if society still avoids that conversation.
someone can love you with their whole heart, but still be afraid to show and share it. that has NOTHING to do with you. you are not responsible for anybody else’s emotional intelligence. you are not obligated to teach, to stay patient, to wait. do what’s right for you.
At the end of the day, I’m a good woman. I’m not perfect by any means, but my intentions are good, my heart is pure, and I love hard with everything I’ve got and because of those things, I’m worth it. Always have been and always will be.
I genuinely do not believe people treat you how they feel about you, I believe they treat you based on the state of mind they’re in. Some people unintentionally hurt you because they’re at war with themselves & suffering with things that has nothing to do with you.
closure is bullshit. the way ppl leave you , the way they exit your life, the way they leave their relationship or connection with you, is all the closure you need. Find clarity in actions, not words ..
if they wanna talk to you, they will. if they wanna be with you, they will. if they wanna make things work, they will. don’t let things be one sided. it’s not healthy, and it’s not fair to you.