Witness Vlog

A little corner of the internet for my thoughts 🌙 My escaping place • motherhood • growth • healing and parenting

[Witness Vlog @RiveraWitty]

Some pains never goes away but you learn to live with it.

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I am a strong and very resillient person but i need hugs most of the time and ear to listen. Today i need someone to tell me it is gonna be ok.

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I am so sensitive with words. I take words very seriously. That is why i speak positivity in people's life. I know how powerful words are. You can't call me stupid twice and say it is a mistake. You mean it. The bible is clear the life and death are in the power of the tongue.

[Witness Vlog @RiveraWitty]

Mind is a powerful tool.
You slowly become what you constantly hear, believe, and tell yourself.
If you always manifest sickness, fear, or failure, the mind begins to accept it as truth and will release hormones and that will manifest in your body..

Protect your mind

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I couldn't agree more. c

[Benedict @cBendrix]

@IAmSteveHarvey You’ll exhaust yourself trying to explain your intentions to people who already decided to misunderstand you. Not every misunderstanding needs a defense.

Sometimes protecting your peace means stepping back instead of proving a point.

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* Tafadhali

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Wazazi wetu wa zamani walitupeleka shule na wakahakikisha tunapata degrees 😍🥰🤩. Makofi kwao tafadhari👏🏾. Unfortunately they stopped growing with us mentally. They stuck with the oldest version of you ( class 7 /10 years). And now you can't have a discussions with them.

[Witness Vlog @RiveraWitty]

When you talk facts they think umechanganyikiwa. They feel attacked
As a parent i have choosen to learn the current world my daughter is living in. If i reason / parent the way i was parented. Itakua chaos haziishi.
I will never stop learning and get to know her deeply.

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2025-2026
These years have been tough i must admit. There are days i feel like i am not going to make it through the day. My mental health have been through the ege. Life has knocked me down 100% Sometimes i look back and say " How did i make it there"? It can only be God.

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What i have achieved in my 30's so far is ny daughter. This girl give me kisses abd best hugs when i need them the most. She is the reason i am pushing everyday.. I don't want to imagine my life without her.

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As a parent myself i think i want to trust ny kids with their decision when they are in their 30. I can advice them but i will trust their decision . They know what they want at their 30 as a parent i will support and make a space for growth.

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I have always be that " rebellious child"
1. I talk what is on my mind - My parents don't like this and trust me najikazaga sana😃.
2. I am good at putting boundaries - They want to walk over you, make decisions for you.
3. I don't give in because of manipulation

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I think the best thing you could do is apology to a child.
3. Mzazi anakosea na anaomba msamaha
4. I won't mind if my baby wil challenge me somedays. I won't be threatened or feel small
5. Talk to her about what she want me to do better . Most parents take it as offense

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Since i became a mother. I have been reflecting so much about my childhood . My parents did the best they could ila i see mistakes and sometimes i tell myself " That was so wrong" but you know African parents are never wrong and they will justify it " Mzazi hakosei.

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So while i am learning to be the best parent i am also re- learning some behaviours i don't agree with African parents.
1. I am a parent to my daughter and i make mistakes.
2. I apolojize to her and i will always do that if i do something wrong. My parents will never do it

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@TheKingdomo_o @Onlythestrong32 @smutoro People downloded VPN before hand. We knew the internet will be down.

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[Gary Goodridge @garyhgoodridge]

The smile on my face does not mean my life is perfect. It means that despite my challenges, I choose to focus on my blessings.

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@Thats_LoCo @bajabiri 😂😂😂