"A girl I once loved left me for a richer man. Out of pain, I told her she would never find someone like me again". ~ Brain Jotter ๐ฃ๏ธ
A few years later, I found out she had moved to the United States, got married to a more handsome man, and they were doing very well. Their children are American citizens, and they even own a successful company.
Thatโs when I realized something important: in life, people will hurt you and still move on without consequences. Donโt sit around hoping something bad will happen to them - it wonโt change anything.
That friend who no longer has time for you because theyโve made money will likely keep progressing. So instead of focusing on others, focus on yourself. Get up, work hard, and build your own life.
Nothing will happen to someone just because they refused to help you.
โ Popular Nigerian comedian Brain Jotter once shared this story about how his girlfriend left him for a richer man.
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What is Heaven going to be like? You are going to be reunited with loved ones who know the Lord. You are going to be rewarded for your faith. You are going to be freed from pain, depression, misery, shame, and guilt. You are going to rejoice, worship, and party for eternity!
After a certain age, your parents slowly become your children. They ask simple questions, repeat stories, and depend on your patience the way you once depended on theirs. Very few understand this role reversal.What looks like innocence or inconvenience is really time coming full circle. Don't correct them harshly. Don't rush them. Care for them the way they once protected you. This is not a burden. It is repayment.
DONโT EVERRRRR COUNT YOURSELF OUT ๐ ๐ Luke 1:37 says, โFor with God nothing shall be impossible.โ What feels impossible to youโฆ is nothing for God. The situation youโve been stressing about, the thing you donโt see a way out of, the prayers youโve been waiting on, God already has a plan. Youโve been through enough, and this next season is about to look different. God knows how to make a way where there is no way. He can turn things around suddenly!!
Last week, a man died because he was โright.โ
He was driving straight. His lane was clear. His speed was normal. He did nothing wrong.
Then suddenly, a bus jumped the median without warning.
The bus driver was wrong. Everyone agreed.
But the man in the car was the one they buried.
This is the first rule of defensive driving most Nigerian drivers donโt understand:
Never assume the other driver will do the right thing.
On Nigerian roads, assumptions can kill you.
That driver in front of you without brake lights?
He can stop suddenly.
That okada rider squeezing between cars?
He can fall.
That truck with shaky containers?
It can drop.
That driver indicating left?
He may still turn right.
Defensive driving is not about proving you are right.
It is about staying alive.
Many drivers approach the road with pride.
โIf he tries nonsense, I will show him.โ
But defensive drivers approach the road with awareness.
โIf he tries nonsense, I will be ready.โ
The graveyard is full of drivers who had the right of way.
Pride doesnโt stop accidents.
Preparation does.
The Federal Road Safety Corps can not sit beside every driver.
So you must protect yourself.
Slow down when you see danger early.
Increase your distance.
Watch behaviour, not signals.
Expect mistakes.
Because on Nigerian roads, the best driver is not the fastest.
It is the one who arrives home.
Drive safely
As a Wife, If a man flirts with you knowing you have a Husband, that is not a compliment. He is not seeing a great woman. He is seeing weak boundaries.
He is not thinking, "She is special." He is thinking, "She can be taken."
And the moment you entertain that attention, you are proving how easy it is to disrespect your Marriage.
A man who openly crosses that line does not respect your Husband, But worse than that he does not respect you either.๐๐ฟ๐ค๐ฟ
Never ever discuss your marital or relationship problems here.
70% absolutely donโt care and view it as entertainment
The other 30% are glad you have those problems because it makes them feel better about their own relationship probelems.
No single benefit doing so.
Randomly came accords this video on instagram and I think men needs this because things can honestly happen. If your babe or any woman Kpai for your house. Donโt run away. Listen and save.
Video via hassan_buhari_esq via instagram.