I may not be where I want to be, but I am grateful for what God has given me so far. I'm grateful for the things I have today... because I don't have to have these things. When you talk to God like that... it opens up room for more stuff to come your way to be grateful for.
Give encouragement to those around you. Give kindness. Give good words to those you see and speak to. Give a bigger tip today. Give, and the love will return to you.