I give myself 24 MAYBE 48 hours to be fucked up about a situation. After that I take my L, and move on. Ain't no sense in sitting around mad or sad about some shit that you can't control or change. Shit life happens to the best of us.
I seen on tik tok this girl made a list of non sexual things men do that turns her on.. my fav on her list was “ a man being aware so i can be oblivious” and YES. When I’m with you, i don’t wanna have a care in the world, cause i know you got us!
sometimes I feel like— i LOVE myself, but it took a lot of work and practice for me to love myself, so like why would you love me so easily… how could you? it took me decades. there must be ulterior motive and i can’t trust anyones love or adoration for me. hehe. lol
Any girl I end up with gotta realize I have a couple female friends that’s always gonna be apart of my life, I’m not cutting my real friends off! Like I don’t get how some ppl do that especially the ones that been there many times when shit wasn’t going well but I digress
I remember when I was in a relationship with one of my exes & I used to get rubbed down w lotion when I got out the shower. 😭😭 you really don’t realize what you got till its gone I been ashy ever since